In this episode we take a look back on a 2022 confessional where we reckon with big emotions pertaining to past, present, and future relationships. After a few tears, some laughter, and a sprinkle of bitterness we find a sweet spot that leads to personal growth.

In today's episode, we include you in our Tea with Tea nights, where we go to The Teahouse to get boba and spill all the tea! Warning: this episode is suited for adult audiences only. Content includes sexual language, foul language, mentions of drug use, alcohol use, and excessive partying. Please note - we do not encourage the activities mentioned in this episode. We are candidly sharing an experience that we learned from and hope will be edifying.

What would cause two women to stop having sex in their 20's? Through a series of events, experiences, and an evolving spiritual walk with God, Amber and Yesenia share how they came to the conclusion of being abstinent. Join the discussion as they talk about a range of thoughts on sex and relationship from being a basic need to a beautiful experience of worship.

Have you ever wondered what the true definition of sex is? 

Or, have you ever heard someone say that they’re abstinent and thought you knew what they meant by it?

Turns out no one really knows what they’re talking about!

So, in this episode we’re  breaking it down for you by defining “sex”  and exploring what abstinence really is because in 2023, nobody has time for misunderstandings.

To make it plain and add some spice, we interview a world-class researcher named Ann, who happens to also be abstinent. During the interview we get into Ann’s business. We explore how she learned about abstinence, how she’s walking out the lifestyle, and what it all means to her now.

A-Y abstinence is a podcast where good friends, Amber and Yesenia, discuss their choice of becoming abstinent in their late 20’s.  

With candor, humor, and inquiry, they invite listeners to join them on their abstinence journey as they navigate self-discovery, relationships, sex [or lack thereof], faith, and lifestyle with the hope of encouraging others who are figuring out their sex-lives as well.