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A Mason's Work
Brian Mattocks
155 episodes
13 hours ago
In this show we discuss the practical applications of masonic symbolism and how the working tools can be used to better yourself, your family, your lodge, and your community. We help good freemasons become better men through honest self development. We talk quite a bit about mental health and men's issues related to emotional and intellectual growth as well.
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In this show we discuss the practical applications of masonic symbolism and how the working tools can be used to better yourself, your family, your lodge, and your community. We help good freemasons become better men through honest self development. We talk quite a bit about mental health and men's issues related to emotional and intellectual growth as well.
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Episodes (20/155)
A Mason's Work
The Entered Apprentice Mason Series – Part III: The Cultivation of Wonder

At the systemic level, the Entered Apprentice teaches that the true foundation of wisdom is wonder. To see as a beginner is to live in curiosity — to acknowledge that every person, at every stage of life, is still learning. This episode invites reflection on how the beginner’s mind reveals unity within diversity, and how awareness of our shared uncertainty opens the door to compassion and renewal.


🔑 Key Takeaways

  • The Entered Apprentice mindset is universally accessible — all are learners, always.
  • Wonder is not naivety; it is the recognition of life’s endless depth.
  • Systemic wisdom arises when curiosity replaces certainty.

💬 Featured Quotes

  • 0:00:09 — “At a systemic level, the Entered Apprentice mindset is the cultivation of wonder.”
  • 0:00:24 — “Everyone is constantly in this state of not knowing.”
  • 0:00:39 — “If the Entered Apprentice mind is like that of a child, then all of us are operating in that capacity somewhere in our lives.”
  • 0:00:51 — “Because that state is perpetually available, it connects all people at any given time.”

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  • Brian Mattocks - Host
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3 days ago
6 minutes

A Mason's Work
The Entered Apprentice Mason Series – Part II: The Humility of Following

To follow well is to learn deeply. In this episode, we explore the relational dimension of the Entered Apprentice — the apprenticeship of humility, listening, and repetition. Progress in Masonry and in life begins when we release the need for mastery and learn to serve the work itself. This is where obedience becomes understanding.


🔑 Key Takeaways

  • Learning begins with humility — to follow before leading, to act before evaluating.
  • True growth in relationship comes from receptivity, patience, and trust.
  • Following with intention transforms imitation into mastery.

💬 Featured Quotes

  • 0:00:04 — “In the relational understanding of the Entered Apprentice, it’s inherent to the process to learn how to follow.”
  • 0:00:23 — “There’s an old saying: lead, follow, or get out of the way — and here, it’s about learning how to follow.”
  • 0:00:37 — “It’s execution before evaluation in a lot of cases.”
  • 0:00:47 — “Like many skills, you must learn by doing before you can reflect on what’s been done.”

Creators & Guests

  • Brian Mattocks - Host
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5 days ago
7 minutes

A Mason's Work
The Entered Apprentice Mason Series – Part I: The Work of Beginning

Every Masonic journey begins with openness — the willingness to learn, to labor, and to make first attempts. In this episode, we explore the behavioral dimension of the Entered Apprentice: the mindset of curiosity and the courage to start imperfectly. True initiation is not marked by ceremony alone, but by the decision to engage with life as a learner.


🔑 Key Takeaways

  • The Entered Apprentice embodies beginnings — effort, curiosity, and humble work.
  • Progress requires repetition, observation, and the suspension of judgment.
  • Every new endeavor offers the chance to renew one’s perception and discipline.

💬 Featured Quotes

  • 0:00:10 — “We’re going to be going over the Masonic symbols in three different levels — practical, relational, and philosophical.”
  • 0:00:22 — “Today, we’re going to start with the Entered Apprentice.”
  • 0:00:35 — “It’s a wonderful perspective for helping in everyday life when it comes to learning something new.”
  • 0:00:50 — “There is a moment in every life where we begin new things — not just once, but over and over again.”

🔗 Explore Related Episodes

  • The Fellow Craft Mason Series – Part II: The Work of Understanding
    Continues the journey through relational reflection and the pursuit of mastery through experience.
  • The Master Mason Series – Part III: The Work of Renewal
    Examines perception, completion, and the renewal of meaning as one moves toward wholeness.
  • Freemasonry Brings Receipts
    Explores how honest reflection and recorded progress build legacy and accountability.

Creators & Guests

  • Brian Mattocks - Host
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1 week ago
7 minutes

A Mason's Work
Dark Rhetoric Series – The Game of Definitions: When Meaning Becomes a Maze

When reason fails to persuade, some retreat into semantics. This episode explores the game of definitions — a rhetorical tactic that twists clarity into confusion. By constantly redefining words, manipulators trap conversations in endless loops, transforming truth-seeking into a contest of control.


🔑 Key Takeaways

  • The game of definitions transforms dialogue into a labyrinth designed to exhaust and confuse.
  • Semantics can become a shield against accountability when clarity threatens control.
  • True understanding requires shared meaning, not linguistic victory.

💬 Featured Quotes

  • 0:00:17 — “One of the more exhausting and complex techniques in dark rhetoric is the game of definitions.”
  • 0:00:38 — “It’s not meant to move the conversation forward, but to control it completely.”
  • 0:00:50 — “You’ll hear people say things like, ‘Well, it depends on what you mean by X.’”
  • 0:01:05 — “Endless redefining becomes a form of power — a way to make understanding impossible.”

🔗 Explore Related Episodes

  • Dark Rhetoric Series – Baiting: How Provocation Becomes Power
    Examines how emotional manipulation turns reaction into control.
  • Dark Rhetoric Series – Ad Hominem: How Ego Replaces Evidence
    Explores how personal attack replaces honest argument and evades accountability.
  • Dark Rhetoric Series – Gatekeeping: How Power Hides Behind Standards
    Reveals how self-appointed arbiters define who belongs and who doesn’t.

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  • Brian Mattocks - Host
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1 week ago
7 minutes

A Mason's Work
Dark Rhetoric Series – Baiting: How Provocation Becomes Power

Baiting is the dark art of pulling others off balance. In this episode, we unpack how manipulators provoke emotional reactions to seize control of the narrative. What begins as a seemingly innocent jab or challenge often becomes a battle for composure — a test of who can stay centered while the other weaponizes volatility.

🔑 Key Takeaways

  • Baiting provokes emotional response to shift control and derail honest dialogue.
  • Reactivity grants power to the provocateur; awareness reclaims it.
  • Mastery of self allows one to disarm manipulation through calm observation.

💬 Featured Quotes

  • 0:00:34 — “This technique I want to talk about next is a type of baiting technique.”
  • 0:00:45 — “These tactics are used when we’re uncomfortable, avoiding something, or trying not to move the conversation forward.”
  • 0:01:10 — “When other people do it to you, it’s about understanding what it looks like so that you can navigate it successfully.”
  • 0:01:40 — “Baiting turns discomfort into a weapon — it invites reaction so that the manipulator can claim control.”

🔗 Explore Related Episodes

  • Dark Rhetoric Series – Ad Hominem: How Ego Replaces Evidence
    Examines how personal attacks replace honest reasoning with ego-driven diversion.
  • Dark Rhetoric Series – Gatekeeping: How Power Hides Behind Standards
    Explores how the illusion of authority and belonging becomes a form of control.
  • Dark Rhetoric Series – Tone Policing: How Control Masquerades as Civility
    Reveals how civility can be weaponized to silence emotional authenticity.

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  • Brian Mattocks - Host
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1 week ago
7 minutes

A Mason's Work
Dark Rhetoric Series – Ad Hominem: How Ego Replaces Evidence

When logic fails, ego often steps in. In this episode, we explore the ad hominem attack — the rhetorical sleight of hand that targets a person instead of their ideas. By shifting focus from argument to identity, manipulators trade truth for dominance, and discourse for dismissal. Recognizing this move is the first defense against its power.


🔑 Key Takeaways

  • Ad hominem attacks divert attention from ideas to individuals, collapsing dialogue into conflict.
  • Personal attacks reveal insecurity and fear of engagement, not strength of argument.
  • Truth-seeking requires discipline to address ideas, not egos.

💬 Featured Quotes

  • 0:00:07 — “Ad hominem attacks really just mean to attack the person rather than the idea you’re discussing.”
  • 0:00:24 — “Whoever is doing this attack will try to invalidate their opponent without actually dealing with the subject.”
  • 0:00:41 — “They’ll go after character — they’ll say, ‘You have things in your background that delegitimize your right to an opinion.’”
  • 0:01:10 — “It’s a way of avoiding the argument altogether while pretending to have won it.”

🔗 Explore Related Episodes

  • Dark Rhetoric Series – Gatekeeping: How Power Hides Behind Standards
    Examines how control hides behind selective inclusion and the illusion of authority.
  • Dark Rhetoric Series – Tone Policing: How Control Masquerades as Civility
    Explores how the demand for calmness can be weaponized to suppress authenticity.
  • Barefoot in the Lodge
    Reflects on vulnerability and humility as antidotes to defensiveness and egoic control.

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  • Brian Mattocks - Host
   
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2 weeks ago
7 minutes

A Mason's Work
Dark Rhetoric Series – Gatekeeping: How Power Hides Behind Standards

At its surface, gatekeeping appears to be about quality, tradition, or protecting standards — but beneath it lies a hunger for control. In this episode, we explore how gatekeeping functions as a subtle form of exclusion, transforming shared ideals into barriers. When standards become instruments of ego, the pursuit of excellence turns into the defense of privilege.


🔑 Key Takeaways

  • Gatekeeping disguises domination as discernment, turning inclusion into hierarchy.
  • True mastery invites participation; false mastery restricts it to preserve status.
  • Freemasonry reminds us that worthiness is demonstrated through conduct, not credentials.

💬 Featured Quotes

  • 0:00:06 — “Gatekeeping is a technique used by people who are looking to assert control over who gets to participate in a conversation or group.”
  • 0:00:28 — “It’s a way to elevate oneself and gain control by asserting who gets access or privilege.”
  • 0:00:45 — “You’ll hear it in comments like, ‘You didn’t go to the right school,’ or, ‘You’re not in the right organization.’”
  • 0:01:12 — “When someone decides who is allowed to speak or belong, they’re protecting power — not principle.”

🔗 Explore Related Episodes

  • Dark Rhetoric Series – Tone Policing: How Control Masquerades as Civility
    Examines how manipulative calmness can be used to silence emotion and assert superiority in discourse.
  • Charity Starts Where?
    Explores how compassion without exclusion redefines what it means to serve and belong.
  • Freemasonry Brings Receipts
    Demonstrates how transparency and accountability are antidotes to elitism within systems of belonging.

Dynamic Inserts

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  • Brian Mattocks - Host
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2 weeks ago
6 minutes

A Mason's Work
Dark Rhetoric Series – Tone Policing: How Control Masquerades as Civility

When emotion enters a conversation, truth often follows close behind — but so does discomfort. In this episode, we examine tone policing, a manipulative tactic that silences authenticity under the guise of calm. By exploring how this rhetorical maneuver transforms vulnerability into disqualification, we uncover what genuine civility truly demands of us.


🔑 Key Takeaways

  • Tone policing disguises control as reasonableness, punishing emotional honesty.
  • Emotional expression often signals proximity to truth, not a departure from it.
  • Authentic dialogue requires discomfort — not suppression — to achieve understanding.

💬 Featured Quotes

  • 0:00:10 — “When you are in a conversation that gets emotionally heated, a manipulator may try to ruin it by policing the tone.”
  • 0:00:44 — “They’ll say things like, ‘You’re getting emotional,’ or, ‘We’re all too emotional to move forward.’”
  • 0:01:22 — “Tone policing is an assertion of dominance — it’s a way to control not just the message, but the legitimacy of the speaker.”
  • 0:02:10 — “The appearance of calm isn’t always the presence of wisdom.”

🔗 Explore Related Episodes

  • Dark Rhetoric Series – Weaponized Ignorance: When Not Knowing Becomes a Shield
    Explores how feigned ignorance is used to derail accountability and disarm honest dialogue.
  • Charity Starts Where?
    Investigates how self-care and internal honesty form the foundation for authentic generosity.
  • Barefoot in the Lodge
    A meditation on vulnerability, humility, and the courage it takes to bring your whole self into Masonic work.

Dynamic Inserts

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  • Brian Mattocks - Host
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2 weeks ago
7 minutes

A Mason's Work
Dark Rhetoric Series – Weaponized Ignorance: When Not Knowing Becomes a Shield

Ignorance can appear humble—an admission of “not knowing.” But when used strategically, it becomes a shield and a weapon: a way to flatten discourse, deflect accountability, or silence expertise. In this episode, we examine the mechanics of weaponized ignorance—how it masquerades as curiosity while concealing hostility—and what it takes to meet it without surrendering reason, compassion, or clarity.

🔑 Key Takeaways

  • Weaponized ignorance feigns vulnerability to disguise control or manipulation
  • Its goal is to exhaust, confuse, or diminish sincere inquiry
  • The antidote is discernment—seeing intent clearly while staying grounded in principle

💬 Featured Quotes

  • 0:00:05 – “It looks like humility—someone admitting they don’t know—but it’s often the opposite.”
  • 0:00:18 – “Weaponized ignorance uses the posture of learning to disarm those who actually have something to teach.”
  • 0:00:33 – “When you meet it, remember: you don’t owe your energy to a performance.”
  • 0:00:49 – “Awareness is the only way to stop being drawn into cycles meant to waste your care.”

🔗 Explore Related Episodes

  • The Mirror and the Mind: Seeing the World as It Is
    — Understanding how perception shapes reality and how clarity dismantles manipulation.
  • Liberation Begets Liberation
    — Explores how freeing the self from bias enables compassion and discernment.
  • Everyone You Know Starts Out as an Imaginary Friend
    — Examines projection and how assumptions distort dialogue and understanding.

Creators & Guests

  • Brian Mattocks - Host
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3 weeks ago
9 minutes

A Mason's Work
Liberation Begets Liberation

When you’ve untangled your own loops, you start to see the loops in others. Real help begins when projection ends—when you can observe behavior cleanly, without the need to rationalize, explain, or fix. In this episode, we explore how self-liberation becomes the groundwork for liberating others. The clearer you see, the more naturally you can act in ways that restore clarity for those still caught in confusion.


🔑 Key Takeaways

  • You can’t free others while you’re still caught in your own patterns
  • Clarity, not control, reveals where genuine help is needed
  • True compassion arises from perception unclouded by judgment or ego

💬 Featured Quotes

  • 0:00:12 – “When you can cleanly observe behavior without preconception, you start to see the opportunities to help.”
  • 0:00:26 – “You’re not trying to solve their problem—you’re helping them escape the cognitive loop that keeps them from seeing it clearly.”
  • 0:00:40 – “In self-liberation, you gain the ability to liberate others.”
  • 0:00:52 – “The work you finish in yourself becomes the help you offer others.”

🔗 Explore Related Episodes

  • The Mirror and the Mind: Seeing the World as It Is
    — On refining perception and freeing awareness from illusion.
  • Everyone You Know Starts Out as an Imaginary Friend
    — Explores the illusions of perception that shape our relationships.
  • The Trowel: Building Connections That Last
    — On how care and clarity intertwine to create lasting bonds.

Creators & Guests

  • Brian Mattocks - Host
   Click here to view the episode transcript.
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3 weeks ago
7 minutes

A Mason's Work
Everyone You Know Starts Out as an Imaginary Friend

Before we ever meet someone as they truly are, we meet the version of them in our minds—the story we create based on fragments, memory, and meaning. In this episode, we explore how relationships begin in imagination, shaped by projection, perception, and expectation. Freemasonry challenges us to see others—and ourselves—more clearly by learning to tell the difference between who we imagine and who truly stands before us.


🔑 Key Takeaways

  • We first interact with our idea of people, not their full reality
  • Projections and assumptions shape how we relate, for better or worse
  • Masonic work asks us to dissolve illusion and meet others with clarity, humility, and presence

💬 Featured Quotes

  • 0:00:10 – “You really don’t meaningfully interact with other people… you’re filtering that interaction through the idea of that person.”
  • 0:00:25 – “Ninety percent of the time when you’re reacting to someone else, you’re reacting to your idea of them, not to them directly.”
  • 0:00:42 – “We get angry with the idea of other people, disappointed in the idea of them, proud of the idea of them—and rarely pause to see who they actually are.”

🔗 Explore Related Episodes

  • The Mirror and the Mind: Seeing the World as It Is
    — Explores how perception shapes reality and how to polish the mirror of awareness.
  • Beyond Silence: What Freemasonry Teaches About Risk and Openness
    — On vulnerability and the courage required to reveal and truly see others.
  • The Trowel: Building Connections That Last
    — A look at how genuine connection requires patience, care, and attention beyond projection.

Creators & Guests

  • Brian Mattocks - Host
   Click here to view the episode transcript.
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3 weeks ago
7 minutes

A Mason's Work
We do live in a simulation - The real question is who's?

We don’t experience the world directly—we experience our idea of it. In this episode, we explore the nature of perception and the realization that all of reality is filtered through the mind. Freemasonry invites us to refine this inner lens, to polish the mirror through which we see, and to move from reaction toward awareness. Seeing clearly begins with understanding how our own consciousness shapes what we see.


🔑 Key Takeaways

  • Our experience of the world is filtered through perception, not direct reality
  • We evaluate experience moment by moment, often unconsciously
  • Freemasonry challenges us to refine our awareness—to polish the inner mirror

💬 Featured Quotes

  • 0:00:00 – “There’s a sort of critical understanding that everyone has to come to… that everything that’s happening is happening in your mind.”
  • 0:00:15 – “You are experiencing the world and, in that experience, perpetually evaluating it—good or bad, left or right, up or down.”
  • 0:00:32 – “You are in all ways interacting less with the real world and more with your idea of the world.”
  • 0:00:45 – “With this concept at hand, it becomes obvious very quickly that awareness is the first step toward understanding.”

🔗 Explore Related Episodes

  • The Hoodwink: Confronting Our Blind Spots
    — On awakening from illusion and beginning to see clearly.
  • The Point Within the Circle: Reconciling Expressed Identity and Lived Belief
    — Explores awareness of self and the boundaries of perception.
  • From the Cave to the Lodge: Escaping the Shadows of Superstition
    — A journey from illusion toward enlightenment and clarity.

Creators & Guests

  • Brian Mattocks - Host
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4 weeks ago
7 minutes

A Mason's Work
Choosing Real Community Over Algorithms

Algorithms can provide us with endless streams of curated content, but they cannot replace authentic community. In this episode, we reflect on the difference between being passively fed online and actively engaging with real people—whether in Lodge, in gatherings, or even in authentic online spaces where relationships are mutual. Freemasonry calls us to choose connection over consumption, and to remember that true nourishment comes from fellowship.


🔑 Key Takeaways

  • There is a difference between being “fed” content and truly being in community
  • Algorithms provide consumption, but authentic communities provide care, recognition, and growth
  • Lodge and real gatherings remind us that relationships are reciprocal and grounding

💬 Featured Quotes

  • 0:00:00 – “There’s a big difference between your feed and being fed.”
  • 0:00:08 – “When you look online at the stuff that’s coming down the pike, that’s all curated by an algorithm.”
  • 0:00:22 – “When you go to a Lodge meeting or a community gathering… those are the real community.”
  • 0:00:38 – “Even in an online space, people who know your challenges and questions, your concerns and cares—that’s community.”

🔗 Explore Related Episodes

  • Beyond Silence: What Freemasonry Teaches About Risk and Openness
    — On moving past passivity to authentic openness and connection.
  • The Lodge and the Open Space: Making Room for Growth
    — Explores how creating space allows real relationships to flourish.
  • The Trowel: Building Connections That Last
    — On binding people together with care and fellowship.

Creators & Guests

  • Brian Mattocks - Host
Click here to view the episode transcript.
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1 month ago
8 minutes

A Mason's Work
The Square and the Lens: Depths of Focus in the Craft

Focus is often misunderstood as an on-or-off switch—something you either have or don’t. In this episode, we reframe focus as a spectrum of depth: near, mid, and distant, across both time and space. Freemasonry teaches us to bring the Square to our focus, aligning our attention not just on what is immediate, but on what lies ahead, ensuring our work is measured, balanced, and rightly directed.


🔑 Key Takeaways

  • Focus is not binary but layered across depth and distance
  • Near, mid, and long-term focus all demand attention in different ways
  • The Square reminds us to measure focus rightly, balancing present tasks with future vision

💬 Featured Quotes

  • 0:00:00 – “A lot of folks are confused about what focus is because we usually describe focus as a true false—you’re either focused or you’re not.”
  • 0:00:15 – “Focus can be done at different depths. You can focus on objects near to you, in the middle ground, or far away.”
  • 0:00:32 – “You can focus on things in time… what’s happening right now, what’s happening in the future, what’s happening in the distant future.”
  • 0:00:45 – “When we talk about focus as a tool that works together with attention, we can really start to make meaningful ground.”

🔗 Explore Related Episodes

  • The Level: Walking the Line Between Life and Death
    — Explores time, mortality, and the present moment as focal points.
  • The Point Within the Circle: Reconciling Expressed Identity and Lived Belief
    — On the tension between identity, belief, and behavior, requiring careful attention.
  • The Lodge and the Open Space: Making Room for Growth
    — Shows how creating space sharpens focus for what matters most.

Creators & Guests

  • Brian Mattocks - Host
Click here to view the episode transcript.
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1 month ago
7 minutes

A Mason's Work
Tracing the Path to This Moment

Every present moment is the result of countless causes: generations of ancestors, chance encounters, technological progress, and the choices we and others have made. In this episode, we pause to reflect on the extraordinary convergence that brings us here, now. The Craft reminds us that the present moment is sacred—an opportunity shaped by history and charged with meaning.


🔑 Key Takeaways

  • The present moment is a convergence of innumerable causes and choices
  • Reflection on ancestry, chance, and technology reveals the depth of “now”
  • Freemasonry calls us to treat the present as sacred, full of possibility

💬 Featured Quotes

  • 0:00:00 – “I want to talk a little bit about how special the present moment actually is.”
  • 0:00:10 – “There is a constellation of things that have occurred to put you here in this place at this time.”
  • 0:00:22 – “Your parents had to have met, your grandparents had to have met, generations—countless generations of your ancestors had to kind of get with it and get along to making you.”
  • 0:00:40 – “The technology has to have been invented to both record what I’m saying and to present it to you in the present moment.”

Creators & Guests

  • Brian Mattocks - Host
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1 month ago
6 minutes

A Mason's Work
Beyond Silence: What Freemasonry Teaches About Risk and Openness

Silence can be powerful—but beyond silence lies the deeper work of vulnerability. In this episode, we examine what vulnerability really means, why it feels risky, and how openness allows us to grow in relationship with others. Freemasonry challenges us not only to be quiet in reflection but to risk exposure in ways that create genuine connection and transformation.


🔑 Key Takeaways

  • Vulnerability is an emotional response involving risk and exposure
  • Silence is a foundation, but true openness requires stepping beyond it
  • Freemasonry calls us to risk connection, allowing vulnerability to become strength

💬 Featured Quotes

  • 0:00:00 – “In today’s episode I want to talk about vulnerability… we don’t really surface what that really means for a lot of people.”
  • 0:00:20 – “Vulnerability is a feeling that you have. It’s an emotional response… an interplay between risking your social reputation in some way.”
  • 0:00:35 – “Silence can be a positive response to drama and turmoil, but beyond silence is the space where openness takes root.”
  • 0:00:50 – “To be vulnerable is to risk exposure, and in that risk lies the possibility of connection and growth.”

Creators & Guests

  • Brian Mattocks - Host
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1 month ago
8 minutes

A Mason's Work
The Lodge in Stillness: Silence as a Tool for Growth

Silence is more than the absence of noise—it is a discipline, a tool, and a posture of openness. In this episode, we explore how cultivating silence creates space for reflection, helps us solve problems, and resists the distractions of modern life. Just as the Lodge is prepared for sacred work, so too must we prepare ourselves with the stillness needed for growth.


🔑 Key Takeaways

  • Silence is a proactive tool, not merely the absence of sound
  • Cultivating silence helps create space for growth and clarity
  • Freemasonry calls us to embrace silence as a discipline of the Craft

💬 Featured Quotes

  • 0:00:00 – “I want to talk in today’s episode about the role of silence… we don’t often as a society cultivate silence as a positive or proactive response.”
  • 0:00:18 – “Silence is an amazing tool to solve all sorts of problems in everyday life.”
  • 0:00:32 – “One of the first things that silence can do for you is… it’s part of creating space.”
  • 0:00:42 – “Cultivate silence inside yourself. And what does that mean? It means choosing stillness over distraction.”

🔗 Explore Related Episodes

  • The Lodge and the Open Space: Making Room for Growth
    — On creating the conditions where growth can emerge.
  • Beyond Silence: What Freemasonry Teaches About Risk and Openness
    — Explores silence as a foundation and vulnerability as the step beyond.
  • The Trowel: Building Connections That Last
    — Balances silence with the work of connection and care.

Creators & Guests

  • Brian Mattocks - Host
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1 month ago
7 minutes

A Mason's Work
The Lodge and the Open Space: Making Room for Growth

Patterns and rituals give us structure—but they can also crowd out possibility. In this episode, we explore the Masonic lesson of creating space: setting aside time, habits, and expectations so new opportunities can arise. Just as the Lodge is a sacred space made ready for work, so too must we make space in our lives to welcome growth and transformation.

🔑 Key Takeaways

  • Creating space is distinct from risk-taking; it’s about readiness and openness
  • Patterns and rituals, while useful, can become barriers to new opportunities
  • The Lodge reminds us that sacred space allows growth to emerge

💬 Featured Quotes

  • 0:00:00 – “Today I want to talk in this episode about creating space… we tend to get stuck in our patterns, our rituals, our behaviors.”
  • 0:00:18 – “We don’t create space for new things.”
  • 0:00:25 – “When we talk about making space… we mean putting yourself in position in the right way to allow for new opportunities to emerge.”
  • 0:00:42 – “Sometimes making space means going to a gathering of people where you know new possibilities might arise.”

🔗 Explore Related Episodes

  • Beyond Silence: What Freemasonry Teaches About Risk and Openness
    — Explores the deeper work of moving from quiet to openness.
  • The Rough Ashlar and the Burden: Making Sense of Challenge and Suffering
    — On struggle as a space for refinement and growth.
  • The Trowel: Building Connections That Last
    — Shows how creating relational space binds us in care and fraternity.

Creators & Guests

  • Brian Mattocks - Host
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1 month ago
7 minutes

A Mason's Work
From Stone to Ashlar: Softening the Hardened Heart

In tumultuous times, it is easy to harden ourselves against pain and call it strength. But endurance without openness risks becoming pride in suffering for its own sake. In this episode, we explore how the Craft reframes suffering not as identity, but as catalyst—inviting us to soften the heart of stone and move toward refinement, compassion, and true growth.


🔑 Key Takeaways

  • Enduring suffering without transformation can calcify into pride, not progress
  • A hardened heart resists connection and care, severing the deeper work of the Craft
  • Growth requires softening, allowing suffering to refine rather than define us

💬 Featured Quotes

  • 0:00:00 – “We live in very tumultuous times… and the natural response to this, however, is to harden your heart.”
  • 0:00:18 – “It is popular to act in a way that prefers survivorship bias, where you endure outrageous amounts of suffering.”
  • 0:00:32 – “Culturally, you’ll see it in different national cultures, in subcultures, where people take pride in the amount of suffering they are able to withstand and endure.”
  • 0:00:45 – “We’ve talked about the value and the role of suffering as a catalyst for development—but when you harden, you stop growing.”

🔗 Explore Related Episodes

  • The Rough Ashlar and the Burden: Making Sense of Challenge and Suffering
    — On chosen and unchosen struggle as tools of refinement.
  • When Willpower Fails: Rethinking the Virtue of Struggle
    — Challenges the cultural narrative of pride in suffering.
  • The Trowel: Building Connections That Last
    — Explores the necessity of care and compassion in balancing endurance.

Creators & Guests

  • Brian Mattocks - Host
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1 month ago
7 minutes

A Mason's Work
The Pillar of Faith: Testing What We Truly Trust

Faith is more than religion—it is the unseen ground upon which we build our lives. In this episode, we explore faith as the foundation for identity, belief, and behavior. Freemasonry challenges us to examine what we actually place our trust in, and whether those foundations are strong enough to carry us through adversity, growth, and change.


🔑 Key Takeaways

  • Faith is broader than religion; it informs all aspects of life
  • Much of what we accept on faith shapes how we navigate challenge and uncertainty
  • The Craft demands honest evaluation of what we truly trust and build upon

💬 Featured Quotes

  • 0:00:12 – “When we talk about faith, it’s very common for people to immediately go to their religion—and that’s not what I’m talking about.”
  • 0:00:20 – “Your religion plays in to your faith, but you take a lot of things on faith that are not specifically religious.”
  • 0:00:32 – “Faith is the place where you have to understand what you actually trust, and what you don’t.”

🔗 Explore Related Episodes

  • The Volume of Sacred Law: Tradition and the Torch
    — Explores the symbolic foundation of Masonic obligations and its connection to faith.
  • The Point Within the Circle: Reconciling Expressed Identity and Lived Belief
    — Considers how faith, belief, and behavior connect in the story we tell about ourselves.
  • Cognitive Dissonance and the Work of the Craft
    — Looks at the tension when faith, belief, and behavior fall out of alignment.

Creators & Guests

  • Brian Mattocks - Host
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1 month ago
7 minutes

A Mason's Work
In this show we discuss the practical applications of masonic symbolism and how the working tools can be used to better yourself, your family, your lodge, and your community. We help good freemasons become better men through honest self development. We talk quite a bit about mental health and men's issues related to emotional and intellectual growth as well.