This episode is an urgent call for justice.
She Deserved Better. The Fight for Ochanya tells the heartbreaking story of 13-year-old Elizabeth Ochanya Ogbanje, who was failed by her maternal family and the Nigerian justice system. From age eight, she suffered years of sexual abuse in silence, violated by those meant to protect her, ignored by those meant to deliver justice.
Despite forensic proof, her abusers were acquitted, and her aunt convicted only of negligence. Ochanya died in pain from complications of VVF (vesico-vaginal fistula), a preventable condition caused by years of trauma.
But this story doesn’t end here. We can still fight for her.
✊🏽 Sign the petition to reopen the case and demand justice for Achaya.
https://c.org/7Rfkb2Kx84
Justice isn’t optional. It’s overdue.
Growing up in an African home is the perfect balance of being deeply cared for and tightly supervised. In this episode, I talk about my mum’s iconic electronic bell era, being over-fed with snacks, morning prayers that shaped our day, and why phones were considered a luxury only granted after graduation. This is childhood under structure, comfort laced with control, love wrapped in discipline and how it secretly shaped who I am today.
In this episode, I take you back to my African childhood, where Sunday Mass wasn’t just attended, it was examined, quail eggs were breakfast shots, and vegetables were a mandatory side dish. From decoding Bible verses for my parents to secretly burying greens in the dustbin, and playing in sand like it was Disneyland, this episode is a hilarious and emotional reminder that African parenting was a mix of discipline and pure childhood freedom.
This episode has everything, exams done, kittens acquired, lazy hairdressers, ASUU drama, and a full-blown rant about people who text in lowercase. Basically, it’s me back home, loud, learning, and lowkey losing it and definitely enjoying it.
This episode is everything, everywhere, all at once faith, foolishness, friendship drama, exams, bad decisions, good laughs, and lessons I didn’t know I was signing up for. It’s loud, it’s real, it’s vulnerable, and it’s me trying to make sense of a week that made absolutely no sense.
This week’s episode is a wild mix from the chaos of exams to roommates serving bedwetting confessions and painful blood draws, nothing was off-limits. But beyond the laughs, I get real about the pressure to always be happy for others when you’re still battling your own struggles. Sometimes, the truest love is giving yourself time to heal before celebrating someone else’s win. Plus, I share the sweetest moment of support from a friend’s mom that carried me through this hectic exam week.
Exam week came with everything, disappointment, frustration, weird surprises, and tiny lessons tucked into chaos. From tanker men delays to raw Indomie revelations, from lazy lecturers to tough exam questions, I’m holding onto one truth, this degree won’t see the end of me.
This week, I bring you a story that blurs the line between genuine friendship and parasitism. Glory and Favor’s bond looked like sisterhood from the outside, but behind the laughter and shared meals was manipulation, betrayal, and a shocking twist that still raises the question: when does a friend stop being a friend?
This week takes us through it all the exhausting chase for validation, the harsh reminder of how fragile life really is, and the joy tucked into small wins that prove the littlest acts still hold the most weight.
In Part Two, I’m revisiting the little notions and quiet beliefs that shape how I move through life. They’re not always right, and sometimes they don’t even hold up under scrutiny but they still keep me going. They soften me when the world feels hard and maybe that’s their true purpose.
This episode dives into what it really means to lean on ideas that aren’t perfect but still keep us alive, hopeful, and connected.
These notions aren’t always right, but they keep me going.
And maybe falling for them isn’t the worst thing in the world because even if they’re not always true, they keep me soft, they keep me human and maybe that’s the whole point
Taking a deeper dive into the conversation around rape culture and victim blaming, a harmful tradition that has persisted for far too long.
We explore how exercising free will as a woman is often unfairly twisted into justification for terrible actions, equally wrong as the original offense.
My guest is back again, and it’s a battle of perspectives, two standpoints come head-to-head, giving us insight into different points of view.
Hostel access is easy to control. What’s harder? Changing the mindset that sees women as responsible for their own assault.
This episode takes you from a decades old university rule, straight into the heart of rape culture and why victim blaming is the most dangerous tradition of all.
Change isn’t always loud. Sometimes it’s quiet.
Sometimes it’s just you, watching something different, outgrowing certain things, and maybe ends in you questioning yourself.
This episode is about that awkward, blurry place where you don’t recognize yourself, but not in a bad way. You’re just changing, softly and truthfully.
This one might sting a little. Not because it’s mean but because it’s true. From forgiving boys who broke your heart to blocking girls who hurt your ego, the standards are different… and we all know it.
Let’s talk about why, and how we start unlearning.
In this final chapter of my sibling series, I’m tying a bow on the noise, the madness, the secrets we swore we’d never tell, and the beautiful mess that built me. This isn’t just a story about growing up, it’s a soft, messy love letter to the chaos that shaped my heart.
If your childhood was loud, a little unhinged, occasionally unfair, but still rooted in real love then this one’s for you.
Childhood was loud. And not just volume, loud with energy, love, chaos, and the kind of memories you can’t recreate.
In this second episode, I take you into the heart of growing up with siblings. From the silly games to the legendary fights, and all the moments that shaped us, this one’s a walk down a very noisy memory lane.
Some bonds aren’t chosen, they just are.
This episode dives into my not-so-perfect but absolutely irreplaceable journey with my siblings. The lessons, the laughs, the long fights and the love that outlives it all.
That confidence you’re selling? Is it really yours or just another version of what you think people want to see? This episode is for the girlies (and guys) performing soft life while fighting for survival behind the scenes. I’m asking the questions nobody wants to hear, What if your whole personality is just a performance?
This episode is a soft meltdown with a side of humor. I’m letting off steam raw, honest, and slightly chaotic.
I’m stressed. Exams confused me. People are stressing me.
And I just needed to talk it out before I self-combust. No script. Just what’s on my mind. So if you’re also holding in 72 things and need to hear someone else spiral first this one’s for you.
