What if aging didn’t mean slowing down — but stepping into a richer, more connected phase of life?

In this episode, host Ron Roel sits down with Stu Almer, President & CEO of the Gurwin Healthcare System, to explore how Life Plan Communities like Fountaingate Gardens are redefining retirement living. Stu explains how Gurwin’s “continuum of care” model helps older adults live independently today while being fully supported for tomorrow — combining vibrant community life with peace of mind. Together, they discuss:

• The difference between independent living, assisted living, and continuing care.
• How Fountaingate’s “Type A” and “Type B” contracts work.
• Why social connection, purpose, and belonging are as vital as healthcare.
• How Gurwin maintains exceptionally low staff turnover and a culture of caring.
• The coming wave of innovative retirement communities — and what families should plan for now.

A must-watch for anyone exploring aging options for themselves or loved ones.

Learn more: 45Forward.org | Gurwin.org | FountaingateLI.org

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Fighting Age Bias and Finding Purpose in the Second Half of Life

In this inspiring conversation, career strategist Mike Dwyer, founder of Implana Career, joins host Ron Roel to talk about how older professionals can fight back against job loss, overcome age bias, and rediscover meaning in their work. Mike shares how a single favor—helping a friend with a résumé—grew into a mission to help hundreds of seasoned professionals reinvent themselves. From creating a personal board of advisors to mastering topical networking and embracing new technologies like AI, Mike outlines practical, realistic strategies for thriving in today’s job market—at any age. Whether you’re retired and restless, looking to pivot careers, or simply searching for renewed purpose, this episode will motivate you to take action and move 45 Forward.

Watch now and learn how to reimagine your work, rebuild your network, and reignite your sense of purpose.

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Aging at home is what most people want — but few families understand what it really takes.
In this powerful episode of 45 Forward, Ron talks with Zubin Kapadia, CEO of Right at Home North Shore on Long Island, about the realities of home care—from preparing the house and the family to choosing the right agency, understanding costs, caregiver expectations, and the critical role of dignity, safety, and long-term planning. Zubin also reveals his Caregivers’ Advancement Fund, a unique nonprofit initiative that supports and uplifts professional caregivers through education and emergency assistance — a model that could change the future of elder care. Whether you’re caring for a parent, planning for your own future, or navigating the healthcare maze after a crisis, this episode delivers real clarity, compassion, and direction.

Topics include:
• Types of home care & what Medicare really covers
• When families should start planning (hint: before crisis)
• Signs a loved one needs more support
• Key questions to ask before hiring an agency
• Family roles, dignity, and boundaries
• Training, culture, and shortages in caregiving
• How tech like telehealth & fall detection fits in
• The coming caregiving crisis — and solutions

Guest Info:
Right at Home North Shore, Long Island
📞 516-513-1070
🌐 RAHLongIsland.com

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Can love, companionship, and intimacy really begin again later in life?
This inspiring conversation proves the answer is YES. After losing their longtime spouses, two older adults found unexpected connection, courage, purpose, and joy in a new relationship. In this episode, we explore:

• Rebuilding life after loss
• Overcoming guilt and fear when starting over
• Rediscovering intimacy and connection in later years
• Communication, mutual respect, and shared growth
• Aging with confidence, independence, and joy
• Challenging ageist assumptions about love and companionship

Their story is a moving reminder that it’s never too late to love, laugh, adapt, and thrive — especially when honesty, openness, and self-awareness guide the journey.

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In this uplifting episode of 45 Forward, host Ron Roel welcomes back Dr. Stephen Post, director of the Center for Medical Humanities, Compassionate Care, and Bioethics at Stony Brook University, to discuss his new book Pure Unlimited Love. Stephen explores the seven paths to love—from giving with kindness, raising kind children, cherishing nature, to honoring the spirit of freedom. He shares practical ways we can apply these lessons daily to find inner peace, strengthen relationships, and live more meaningful lives—especially as we age. Together, Ron and Stephen dive into:

• Why love is ultimate reality beyond politics and division
• The difference between unconditional vs. unlimited love
• How humor, forgiveness, and compassion become daily expressions of love
• Why raising kind children matters for the future of our society
• How freedom, properly understood, is a gift of the spirit, not just independence

Whether you’re in midlife or beyond, this conversation will inspire you to embrace love as the guiding principle for the second half of life.

 Learn more: unlimitedloveinstitute.org

 Preorder Pure Unlimited Love now


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Aging isn’t a slow fade—it’s a remix. New York Times reporter John Leland joins Ron Roel to explore what longer lives make possible: a 90-year-old’s first bar mitzvah, blind tennis in downtown Manhattan, why “act your age” is terrible advice, and how gratitude and purpose can outshine loss. We also dig into lifelong learning, bending (not breaking) career timelines, and the stakes of losing local journalism. If you’re rethinking what the second half of life can look like, this conversation will give you frameworks, stories—and a nudge to try the thing you “can’t.”

Guest: John Leland — author of Happiness Is a Choice You Make: Lessons from a Year Among the Oldest Old


Host: Ron Roel — 45 Forward Contact & Links

• John Leland: leland@nytimes.com
• John’s NYT byline archive: search “New York Times John Leland byline”
• Ron: ron@45forward.org — newsletter & show notes at 45Forward.org
• Ron’s book: The Caregiving Navigator (Amazon)



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Are we as polarized as we think? In this episode of 45 Forward, Ron sits down with Diane Hessen—innovator, long-time CEO, and author of Our Common Ground—who spent years listening weekly to 500 voters across every age, region, and political stripe. What she learned upends the usual narrative: on many major issues, Americans share more policy overlap than cable news suggests. The real problem? Stereotypes, incentives to amplify extremes, and the human tendency to vote against the other side rather than for something positive.

Diane explains the research approach that unlocked unusually candid conversations (including the simple listening prompt: “Tell me more.”), why media “heat” drowns out quiet consensus, how generations differ (and surprisingly don’t), and why so many people yearn for a “new American dream”—upward mobility, voice in community, and leaders who make heroes of those who give more than they take. It’s a practical, hopeful playbook for talking across difference—starting at your own dinner table.

Topics we cover:
• Where common ground actually exists (immigration, etc.)
• How stereotypes of “the other side” get it wrong
• Voting against vs. for in 2016–2024 cycles
• Active listening that builds trust (“Tell me more”)
• Loneliness, belonging, and why people feel unheard
• Generational patterns without the clichés
• A constructive path toward that “new American dream”.

 If you enjoyed this conversation, share it with someone who disagrees with you—and try “tell me more” together.

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A breathtaking true love story that survived ghettos, Bergen-Belsen, seven years of wartime separation, and a near-impossible reunion. Ron talks with Jan—author of To Enduring Love—about her parents, Alexander and Ilona, who met in 1930s Budapest, were torn apart by World War II, and built a hopeful new life in America. (Contains WWII/Holocaust references.)

What you’ll hear
• Budapest meet-cute: an orchestra musician and a coat-check girl who fell in love
• A cinematic separation at a train station—and a promise to reunite
• Cuba, the war, ghettos, and Bergen-Belsen; faith, grit, and survival
• The reunion, immigration to Queens, and the values that shaped a family: hope, education, service
• Jan’s own journey—FAA public service, teaching, and the life formula: Work × Effort = Results

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A near-death scare sparked BetterAge—Jim Firman reveals the #1 obstacle to aging well (and the fix). We cover the Aging Mastery Program, policy wins (HICAP, Medigap reforms, CLASS), and a new NIH-funded platform turning insights into action—especially for caregivers and homebound older adults.
In this conversation with host Ron Roel, Jim shares:

• The quintuple-bypass story that reframed time as a gift
• Why 20% of older adults say they’re reluctant to ask for help—and how that affects every dimension of well-being
• The surprising power of volunteering (including the “I would if someone asked me” group)
• How BetterAge’s assessments + community partners are scaling real-world change

Links & resources
BetterAge: https://betterage.net
Caregiving Navigator (free tools & checklists): https://caregivingnav.com
45 Forward archives: https://45forward.org
Contact Ron: ron.roel@gmail.com

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Aging is an extreme sport. In this episode, Ron sits down with Taylor Brennan of MIT AgeLab to explore how design, data, and intergenerational programs can help us thrive at 85+. We dive into AGNES (the age-empathy suit), surprising financial red flags that can precede dementia by 6–8 years, older adults hacking hearables (yes, AirPods), and the real costs of family caregiving. Plus: how to join AgeLab’s panels and where the field is headed next. You’ll learn

• How non-clinical signals (e.g., financial losses) can flag early cognitive decline
• What AGNES teaches engineers about friction, fatigue, and safety
• How Omega teen–elder clubs beat loneliness on both ends of life
• What older workers need to succeed with AI & digital tools
• Where to find practical help for caregivers

Resources
MIT AgeLab — agelab.mit.edu
45 Forward archives — 45Forward.org
Caregiving Navigator — CaregivingNav.com

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What does a life of creative reinvention really look like #45Forward #BillWilliams In this episode of 45 Forward, host Ron Roel sits down with writer–producer–editor Bill Williams—a military brat turned TV/film consultant, presidential slide-maker, registered lobbyist, disaster-relief communicator, finance pro, and creator of the long-running email series “Thought for the Day.” Bill shares funny, startling, and deeply human stories: inventing a 90-second USPS PSA that stations actually wanted to air, launching the Benjamin Franklin Stamp Club in schools, documenting floods and recovery efforts, a week among the Hopi after historic rains, a Poland bicentennial film shoot, and what digital photography taught him about change. His timeless advice for creatives: “Don’t try to do everything. Do something, do it well—then try the next thing.” You’ll learn: How to build a career by stacking specialties—not chasing everything at once Why the right format (and length) can make or break a message How institutional perspective sharpen your questions What travel, failure, and finishing actually teach you in the long run Explore more: • 45 Forward archive: 45Forward.org • Caregiving resources: CaregivingNav.com • Bill’s site & signup for Thought for the Day: Internet-Humor.com • Bill’s book: "20 Years of Internet Humor" (available via major booksellers)

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What does it really mean to age well? In this episode, host Ron Roel speaks with Diana Yin, co-founder of BetterAge, a mission-driven public benefit corporation helping older adults take control of their health and well-being with a personalized "journey map" for aging. Diana shares her vision of empowering people through awareness, action, and achievement—three stages that help individuals build new habits, find purpose, and live a more fulfilling life. She also discusses BetterAge’s groundbreaking NIH-backed study, the science behind incremental change, and how their holistic approach connects users to real-world support in over 50 U.S. communities. Whether you're caring for a loved one or planning your own path forward, this episode will inspire you to see aging not as decline—but as a time of opportunity, growth, and innovation. Learn more: https://www.betterage.net Ron’s caregiving guide: https://www.caregivingnav.com Full archive of episodes: https://45forward.org 

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What if the biggest issues we call “senior problems” are really everyone’s problems?
In this powerful episode of 45 Forward, host Ron Roel speaks with two inspiring changemakers—Arielle Galinsky, a Harvard Kennedy School grad student and founder of The Legacy Project, and Cindy Morris, CEO of The Benson Agency and founder of Women Who Changed the World. Together, they challenge outdated thinking around ageism, caregiving, social security, and why intergenerational collaboration is key to solving our most pressing societal challenges. From Teen Vogue op-eds to policy reform, from frontline caregiving to grassroots storytelling, this conversation will open your eyes—and maybe change your future. Topics include: • Cultural and structural ageism • The caregiving crisis and workforce shortage • How women bear the brunt—financially and emotionally • The Legacy Project’s mission across 12 states • Why your Social Security decisions start now

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We all love good storytellers, and the best storytellers are the ones with the most to tell—America’s seniors, who have already lived long lives. But our older generations often don’t get a chance to tell their stories. In fact, they’re not even asked. But in today’s episode, I’ll be talking with Jack York, whose mission is to change all that. Jack, who’s been immersed in the senior living world for more than 25 years, is the founder and Chief Storyteller of Talegate. He now spends his days crisscrossing the country, capturing the amazing, often untold personal stories of seniors—including those of our oldest old, 100-year-olds, our nation’s centenarians, through a project called Vintage Voices. The story of Jack York and Talegate is an amazing, heartfelt story, and today, we’ll share this story with you.                             

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There are over 11,000 senior centers in America. They serve over a million adults every day, offering a wide variety of programs and services, from meals and nutritional programs; to social and recreational activities; intergenerational programs; and fitness and wellness classes. Most of us probably know about our local senior center, but do you know much about them? How do they actually work? What does it take to provide all their services every day? In today’s episode we look behind the scenes of one dynamic center, the Westbury Senior Center on Long Island, with Executive Director Andrea Padinha and Assistant Director Robin Lombardo. Andrea and Robin will tell us about their vision for improving the daily lives of seniors; what older folks say they need and desire most; and how they collaborate with a host of partners, professionals, staff and volunteers. It’s a demanding and often complex task—especially at a time of challenging fiscal constraints for nonprofits. But Andrea and Robin will give us an insider’s view of just how the job gets done.

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There’s a lot of upheaval these days across Washington, as many federal agencies face significant cuts in staffing and programs, including the Social Security Administration. It’s not exactly clear what changes are going on inside the agency (the news seems to change by the week), but what IS clear is that many people are really anxious about the potential loss of their benefits and services—both near-term and in the coming years. Will Social Security be there for them when they need it? So today, we’re talking with Mark Miller, a nationally recognized expert on retirement planning and aging, who will spell out the many critical issues facing Social Security and Medicare today, and what the changes could mean for you. Mark is an awarded journalist, author, and podcaster who offers a holistic view of retirement security, including healthcare and Medicare, Social Security, and retirement investing. He writes frequently about retirement-related public policy issues, and his work appears at Reuters, The New York Times, Morningstar and WealthManagement.com; he also has a  Substack newsletter and podcast on retirement. Mark’s latest book is Retirement Reboot: Common Sense Strategies for Getting Back on Track.

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On today’s show we talk about a subject that’s carried a lot of stigma over the years: mental illness. But more recently, there seems to be a growing awareness and willingness to talk about mental health issues among both younger and older people, in part, spurred by the experiences of isolation, loneliness and disruption brought about by the COVID pandemic. We know, in fact, that one in five adults today experience a mental illness and one in 20 adults experience serious mental illness, according to the National Alliance on Mental Illness. Certainly, we’re more open about it, but it’s still a difficult conversation. In today’s episode, Dr. Steven Lesk, a practicing psychiatrist for some four decades, discusses his new book, Footprints of Schizophrenia: The Evolutionary Roots of Mental Illness. It’s a fascinating book that offers a perspective you probably wouldn’t expect. Dr. Lesk spent his medical career dedicated to those affected by schizophrenia and, in his determination to find the answer to its origins, he integrates insights from psychiatry, neuroscience, anthropology, and perhaps surprisingly, evolutionary biology. He’s not only a psychiatrist, but a groundbreaking theorist.

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Among the most stressful events in life, moving is often cited as a top stressor, ranking third, only after the death of a spouse and divorce. In today’s episode, we tackle the many challenges of moving—especially for older individuals and families—in our wide-ranging conversation with Robert Esposito, the entrepreneurial owner of Relocators, a multi-dimensional moving and transitioning company. The author of a new book, Nobody Move! (Without Reading This), Rob lays out his roadmap that has helped thousands of families manage the logistical complexities and emotional struggles of relocation. He’ll explain how he assembles a comprehensive range of services, from same-day moving and relocation, to clean-outs, storage, estate sales and online auctions. Rob will offer stories, advice and insights into the moving process, while answering a host of questions he’s addressed over the course of his professional career: What do families need to know before they start a move? What are the tasks people most often overlook and fail to plan for? When (and how) should family members be involved? Ultimately, Rob’s goal is to disrupt the real estate industry, exhorting other professionals to listen more to their clients and help them understand the complex journey they will be going through.

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As we move forward through our career, perhaps it’s time to consider some bigger aspirations beyond professional advancement—especially as we get older and ponder our legacy. How might we create a significant contribution to making a better world? In today’s episode, I talk with Emiliana Vegas and Harvard professor and author of the recent book, “Let’s Change the World,” who has spent her career focusing on issues to improve the educational opportunities in the so-called Global South—Latin America, the Caribbean and other developing regions. Dr. Vegas offers a practical and encouraging guide for everyone, no matter their age, who wants to make a positive change through their professional life—from ensuring access to quality schools and clean water, to improving healthcare and creating safer communities. Finding global institutions on that path are often difficult to understand, hard to get into, and even harder to navigate. Dr. Vegas, who has 20 years of experience working in international development organizations, will not only describe her own personal and professional journey, but provide a compendium of insider tips, best practices, and targeted advice, offering a blueprint for all of us determined to be a force for good.

GUEST CONTACT INFORMATION:
Contact: emiliana_vegas@gse.harvard.edu
Website: https://www.emilianavegas.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/EmiVegasV
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/emivegasv/
X: @EmiVegasv

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