When ‘I Can’t’ Meets ‘You’re Doing It Wrong’ – The Cycle That’s Destroying Relationships

Men say women micromanage everything. Women say men pretend to be clueless to get out of responsibilities. So who’s telling the truth? In this raw, no-BS episode of Zen Unfiltered, we’re unpacking the toxic dynamic that’s ruining modern relationships—weaponised incompetence vs. control freak behaviour.

Are men really incapable, or have they just learned that failing means they’ll never be asked again? Are women actually control freaks, or are they just tired of carrying everything alone? And more importantly—how do we break the cycle before it destroys our relationships, friendships, and even our workplaces?

We’re getting into the psychology, the research, the hard truths, and most importantly—the solutions. Because if you’re stuck in this pattern, you need to hear this.