In this Episode Azande shares her relationship with her in-laws before and after the loss of her husband. She speaks on the expectations that were placed on her and how she had to stand up for herself and her children to create a space to heal better. How she thought they would try and maintain a good relationship, more especially for the sake of the children, however it didn’t last long because of some difficult decisions that she had made and how uncomfortable it became for them. An additional lesson for her in this was that no matter how hard you may try to please and make people happy, they will always receive you from their own place of understanding. She eventually took the decision of letting them be and trusted God with her journey of raising her kids without their support.