Have you ever felt like you were in a constant lose lose situation with certain people. That no matter what you did or said they would find away to make you the problem. You constantly ask for them to do something with you and they constantly turn you down. Then that one time you do not ask they make a big deal about it? Expecting you to ask even though they know they will say no because it hurts their feelings by you not inviting them. Yet, they never think to invite you anywhere. These people tend to be not only selfish but ungrateful at the same time. Be cautious of these types of people as they can be very draining to you.