Devora Krasnianski of Adai Ad talks with Hindi Kalmenson of Relationshift about effective mindsets for staying connected with your husband through the busyness, joys and stress of Pesach. In this talk, Hindi shares several very practical applications of the mashpia-mekabel dynamic. How to really receive what your husband is contributing to you and the family. We also talk about how to have conversations about what you each want for the Pesach experience, how to work out when there are differences of perspectives, and how to share responsibilities.
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- 0:00 Introduction
- 1:21 How to start preparing and thinking about Pesach.
- 5:10 Think about what you want from this Pesach.
- 9:20 How to plan together for a meaningful Pesach.
- 15:25 When you have different ideas for Pesach.
- 20:00 When your husband brings up an idea that you find difficult.
- 30:10 Talking about sharing responsibilities for preparing for Pesach.
- 34:10 Receive what your husband is offering to you.
- 39:28 Help your husband know what and how you want to receive.
- 46:30 Don't hint at it, be vulnerable to express your desire.
- 49:30 Know your stressors and what will help you destress.
- 53:10 Wrap up
