Devora Krasnianski of Adai Ad talks with Sara Gita Soble of Mindshift about effective communication in marriage. It's much more than words - it is a mindset.
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- 0:00 About this talk
- 3:18 Why do people communicate?
- 5:00 Where do people get stuck in their communication?
- 6:25 Communication is more than a set of tools.
- 7:21 It’s all about the mindset under the communication.
- 9:05 1. Create space 2. Find value.
- 13:11 Find the value in the other’s ideas.
- 14:14 Have genuine curiosity.
- 18:00 Assume there is value and then find it.
- 28:21 When there is respect, you can find wonderful solutions together.
- 29:13 What to do when values conflict.
- 32:56 In an environment of respect and safety, creativity can flow.
- 33:45 The 5 secrets of effective communication.
- 38:07 You don’t need to ever get to being on the same page.
- 41:18 Move from ‘your way’ and ‘my way’ to a third way.
- 47:08 We don’t need to control the whole situation.
- 47:48 Recap of the 5 secrets.
- 50:21 Wrap up
