Your Southern Lesbian is a podcast hosted by Ashley Hydrick, a Gen-X lesbian storyteller from the American South currently broadcasting from London.
With humor, heart, and honesty, Ashley explores lesbian dating, queer community, and the realities of midlife love — from navigating relationships and finding confidence again to celebrating the culture, history, and everyday stories that connect us.
Whether you’re single, partnered, or just curious about the lives of queer women, this show offers laughter, reflection, and real talk about what it means to thrive as a lesbian today. Also available on YouTube!
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Your Southern Lesbian is a podcast hosted by Ashley Hydrick, a Gen-X lesbian storyteller from the American South currently broadcasting from London.
With humor, heart, and honesty, Ashley explores lesbian dating, queer community, and the realities of midlife love — from navigating relationships and finding confidence again to celebrating the culture, history, and everyday stories that connect us.
Whether you’re single, partnered, or just curious about the lives of queer women, this show offers laughter, reflection, and real talk about what it means to thrive as a lesbian today. Also available on YouTube!
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Welcome back to Your Southern Lesbian! In Episode 25, Ashley dives into the complexities of relationships, drawing inspiration from a quote by Martha Beck: "When something's not working, don't do it harder." Ashley explores the idea of bending and being malleable within a relationship, while also recognizing when it's time to walk away.
Key topics discussed:
The importance of open and honest communication in relationships.
Recognizing patterns and childhood reactive habits that impact current relationships.
The power of self-reflection and journaling, including a powerful exercise to release past partners.
The need for both partners to be willing to "come to the table" and work through challenges.
Identifying non-negotiables and re-evaluating beliefs.
Trusting your intuition and listening to your "gut."
The importance of supporting each other's dreams.
The value of self-awareness and personal growth in relationships.
Avoiding overthinking and trusting the process.
The importance of aligning actions with intentions.
Ashley also shares personal anecdotes and insights, encouraging listeners to choose partners who are willing to have difficult conversations and create a safe space for authentic expression. She emphasizes the importance of self-care, meditation, and seeking resources like podcasts, audiobooks, and therapists to navigate relationship challenges.
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