
Paul Valéry once wrote,
“To suffer is nothing more than to pay ultimate attention to something.”
In this episode, I think about what that really means.
We usually see suffering as something to avoid — pain, sadness, or struggle.
But maybe it’s also a moment when our attention becomes completely focused.
When we suffer, all distractions fade,
and we can no longer look away from what truly matters.
It’s uncomfortable, even painful,
yet within that focus, something honest begins to appear.
Sometimes, suffering isn’t only what hurts.
It’s also what teaches us how to see.