
We often tell children to “make friends” and “get along,”
but we rarely remind them — or ourselves — about the right order.
This episode reflects on a simple idea:
that before seeking approval or belonging,
we need to find what we truly love.
When we start by trying to fit in,
our sense of “what I like” slowly fades under other people’s expectations.
It’s not that we can’t find what we want —
it’s just that the noise around us becomes too loud to hear it.
A quiet reminder about priorities,
for both children and adults who may have lost touch with their own voice.