#widower #loss #lifeexpectations https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0D8GNYSV4/ref=sr_1_1?crid This is nothing new, but no matter how much we plan out our lives, there are going to be disappointments. At the same time, over the course of life we often have our expectations met and often exceeded. But...it's those times when life falls short that we can drift into a period of sadness. Loss of a loved one can be one of those triggers. At the same time, despite loss we can still have high expectations for the future. That's all part of my latest message as prepare to enter year three as a widower without my beautiful bride Pam.