In this episode of 'What Are You Doing, Dem?', host Dem shares her personal journey living in New York City, debunking the glamourized image of the city. She discusses her experiences at NYU, challenges of finding and living in various apartments, and navigating social life and professional opportunities. Dem offers practical advice for those considering a move to New York, including managing expectations, budgeting, and finding community. She also reflects on the highs and lows of her time in the city and why she eventually decided to leave.