Leaving a toxic or dysfunctional relationship is supposed to feel like freedom… right?
So why do you still feel grief, sadness, or doubt after walking away?
In this episode of Worthy of Work, Stephanie Rivard breaks down the confusing emotional aftermath of ending an unhealthy relationship — and why your pain doesn’t mean you made the wrong choice.
You might expect to feel only relief and peace, but what you’re experiencing is grief: the emotional detox that comes from letting go of the dream you had, the identity you built, and the patterns your nervous system grew comfortable with — even if those patterns were unhealthy.
✨ In this episode, you’ll learn:
Why grief after leaving is normal — and what it’s really about
How to tell the difference between detox and doubt
Three practical steps to help you move through the pain and stay grounded in your decision
1️⃣ Name the grief — “I miss the dream. I miss feeling chosen.”
2️⃣ Stay rooted in the facts — “What do I know for sure?”
3️⃣ Reconnect safely — Surround yourself with healthy people and spaces that support your healing
Stephanie also shares her own story of leaving her marriage — driving a 27-foot U-Haul through downtown, crying tears of both peace and panic — and what she’s learned about the emotional complexity of choosing yourself after years of codependency and chaos.
If you’ve ever thought, “If this was the right decision, why do I still hurt?” — this episode is for you.
💬 You’ll walk away understanding:
That grief is not proof of error — it’s proof of growth.
That your body and mind are adjusting to a new normal.
That healing hurts, but the pain is progress.
🎧 Worthy of Work is the podcast where we unpack the relationship skills no one taught us — hosted by Stephanie Rivard, relationship clarity coach and founder of The Clarity Advantage.
👉 If this episode helped you, please like, subscribe, and share it with someone who’s in the messy middle of leaving. They may not have said it out loud, but they need to know this too.
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