Midlife isn’t about fixing what’s on the surface — it’s about rebuilding from the foundations up.
In this powerful conversation, I’m joined by Courtney Townley to explore why boundaries, self-care, and authenticity are the cornerstones of health and happiness in midlife.
We talk about the renovation years — that stage where you start questioning what’s truly working for you, and what’s no longer aligned. We uncover why managing your stress, setting boundaries, and letting go of people-pleasing can completely transform how you feel, think, and show up in your life.
Courtney shares her simple, practical steps for creating and honouring boundaries — starting small so it feels doable — and we discuss why self-care isn’t about spa days, but about consistently honouring your energy, values, and priorities.
If you’ve been feeling drained, spread too thin, or ready to reclaim your energy and confidence, this episode will help you reconnect with who you are and what really matters.
In our conversation we’re unwrapping:
Why taking time to know yourself is one of the most nutritious habits you can develop.
The power of journaling to reveal patterns in your thoughts.
What boundaries are — and why they’re essential for every aspect of your health.
How people-pleasing leads to self-abandonment and integrity pain.
Why health is a direction, not a destination.
How self-care and boundary setting are inseparable.
Why stress management is the ultimate midlife health skill.
How authenticity deepens relationships.
The value of starting small when practising boundaries.
About Courtney Townley:
Courtney Townley is a health and self-leadership coach, speaker, and host of the top-rated Grace & Grit podcast. She helps midlife women to cut through the noise of wellness culture and lead themselves with less overwhelm and more confidence.
With over three decades in the wellness industry, she’s discovered that deep health isn’t about following someone else’s manual—it’s about writing your own. A sought-after speaker and educator, she blends science with straight talk, helping women navigate behaviour change with grace, grit and self-trust.
When she’s not coaching, speaking, or podcasting, you’ll find her salsa dancing, traveling, or soaking up time with her family and her beloved Great Dane, Sully.
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We unwrap what healthy living really means, helping you cut through the confusion and overwhelm to build sustainable, healthy habits that actually fit your life. We’re here to strip back the noise and show you why prioritising your health is the key to the happy, vibrant life you’re striving for.
We specialise in supporting women in midlife to take control of their wellbeing and menopause journey using our RESET plan focused on: Mindset, Movement, Nutrition, Sleep, and Stress. Because when you feel strong, capable, and in control, everything changes.
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