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If you find yourself changing your plans, constantly waiting for a text, and neglecting the things that make you feel good when you start dating, Carla is chatting all about this in this week's episode.
She goes through dating patterns, attachment styles, childhood wounds, and why we often abandon ourselves when we start seeing someone new.
Carla shares her own experience of rushing relationships, craving validation, and how the pressure to be chosen often stems from deeper emotional wounds.
Whether you’re single, dating, or in a relationship, you’ll be able to take something from this episode!
Timestamps:
00:00 Upcoming retreat, travel plans
01:42 Personal reflections and travel plans, Compassionate Inquiry course
06:29 Navigating relationships and self-discovery
07:30 Fantasising after one date and social conditioning
14:30 Dating as a mirror for your inner child and trauma
17:28 Patriarchal conditioning and inherited behaviour
20:34 Attachment styles and their impact on relationships
21:40 The importance of self-love and going slow
23:50 The butterfly story and trusting the struggle
25:20 Addressing inner child wounds and emotional regulation
34:13 Setting boundaries and maintaining self-worth
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