Is Being a “Queen” Really Worth It? Women need to be cognizant of what we call ourselves and answer to. A Queen intimidates, is ruthless and a conqueror. A Princess it’s associated with femininity, puts herself first, is expected to be flattered and impressed and taken care of. Being perceived as the face of strength being a Queen comes with the price of losing your femininity because masculinity and femininity cannot occupy the same space successfully for long periods of time. Eventually one energy will dominant the other.