My roommate applied to change dorms without telling anyone. I couldn’t help asking her, “Why are you moving? Haven’t we all been getting along just fine?” She gave a dry laugh. “Well... another dorm invited me.” Her head stayed low. Her voice trembled, and she didn’t meet my eyes. But when she talked to the others, she looked completely at ease. Something sank in my chest. “Did I do something wrong? Did I make you uncomfortable?” “No, not at all. Of course not,” she said in a panic. “Really, it has nothing to do with you. Don’t overthink it.”