Where Did I Go? is a podcast about the quiet identity crisis that often comes with motherhood—and the slow, beautiful, messy process of finding your way back to yourself.
Hosted by Dani, a writer, brand storyteller, and mother of two, this is a space for honest conversations about the stuff we don’t always say out loud: the fog, the guilt, the ambition that never really left, and the weirdness of trying to parent and be a person at the same time.
Whether you’re in the thick of matrescence, edging toward perimenopause, or just feeling a little lost, you’ll find thoughtful stories, warm reflections, and gentle reminders that you’re not alone. And you’re definitely not gone.
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Where Did I Go? is a podcast about the quiet identity crisis that often comes with motherhood—and the slow, beautiful, messy process of finding your way back to yourself.
Hosted by Dani, a writer, brand storyteller, and mother of two, this is a space for honest conversations about the stuff we don’t always say out loud: the fog, the guilt, the ambition that never really left, and the weirdness of trying to parent and be a person at the same time.
Whether you’re in the thick of matrescence, edging toward perimenopause, or just feeling a little lost, you’ll find thoughtful stories, warm reflections, and gentle reminders that you’re not alone. And you’re definitely not gone.
Ep 6 with Katie McCrory: How motherhood can set your creativity free... if you let it
Where Did I Go...?
57 minutes 48 seconds
4 months ago
Ep 6 with Katie McCrory: How motherhood can set your creativity free... if you let it
Welcome to another episode of "Where Did I Go?"!
This week, we dive into the transformative power of motherhood on creativity. Many of us have heard that becoming a mom takes away our freedom and sense of self. What we don’t often hear is how it can also spark a massive creative expansion; a total cosmic realignment of who you are and what you’re here to make.
In this episode, I chat with the incredible Katie McCrory, a brand storyteller at IKEA and a passionate writer. Katie's experience of motherhood didn't destroy her creative spark, it reignited it in the most profound way.
While on maternity leave, she didn't just juggle nappies and naps. She crafted the book that had been a lingering ambition, not because she had more time (obviously!) but by the cosmic realignment motherhood triggered within her.
Join us as we explore how becoming a mom can feel like the catalyst for extraordinary creative expansion. Katie shares her poignant journey, revealing how the challenges of infertility and the joyous chaos of parenting reshaped her artistic identity. Her story is all about leaning into life's upheavals and embracing them as transformative, alchemic experiences.
We delve into Katie's writing process, her enchanting 'cosmic safety net', and the liberating shift from structured, task-oriented mindsets to a freer, more intuitive form of creation. And of course, we discuss the blessings of finding authenticity and backing yourself during one of life's most intense transitions.
So, grab a cozy drink, snuggle in, and let's get inspired by stories of maternal creativity and inner growth capturing the magic in all its forms. You won't want to miss this one!
Topics We Cover:
How motherhood can spark creative rebirth
Infertility, loss, and the liminal space of transformation
Writing a book on maternity leave: the truth behind the fairytale
Letting go of guilt and reclaiming time for yourself
The myth of the tortured (usually male) artist
Why creativity because of motherhood hits different
Alchemy, identity shifts, and trusting the process
Practical rituals and writing habits that work for busy mums
Timestamps:
00:00 – Katie’s journey to motherhood and what cracked her open07:30 – The magic of the liminal space: life, death, and deep creative clarity15:00 – IVF, grief, and asking the cosmos for help22:00 – How Katie wrote her book on maternity leave33:00 – Writing in 8-minute sprints, spreadsheet planning, and loving the process41:00 – Substack, daily writing, and keeping creativity alive after the book deal48:00 – Why your passions matter (and why your kids should see that)53:00 – How to start: letting go of mum guilt and just taking the first step
Resources & Links:
Pre-order Katie’s book: Where the Heart Is→ Amazon UK | Waterstones (search: “Katie McCrory Where the Heart Is”)
Subscribe to Katie’s newsletter:→ lifeathome.substack.com
📖 Mentioned in this episode:
Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert
The Artist’s Way by Julia Cameron
The Baby on the Fire Escape by Julie Phillips
Atomic Habits by James Clear
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Where Did I Go...?
Where Did I Go? is a podcast about the quiet identity crisis that often comes with motherhood—and the slow, beautiful, messy process of finding your way back to yourself.
Hosted by Dani, a writer, brand storyteller, and mother of two, this is a space for honest conversations about the stuff we don’t always say out loud: the fog, the guilt, the ambition that never really left, and the weirdness of trying to parent and be a person at the same time.
Whether you’re in the thick of matrescence, edging toward perimenopause, or just feeling a little lost, you’ll find thoughtful stories, warm reflections, and gentle reminders that you’re not alone. And you’re definitely not gone.
