What am I supposed to be doing in my 20s? Isn't it the time to try out all the experiences I can while I'm in my youth? What if I'm broke? Should I be putting all my energy into a successful career? Should I be dating seriously at this age?
Our 20s is probably the most confusing, yet exciting but delusional time that a person will go through in their lives. In each episode, Ellen goes into all the experiences she's been through as a 24 year old, in hopes that someone else will relate to her experiences and feel less alone about what they're going through.
What am I supposed to be doing in my 20s? Isn't it the time to try out all the experiences I can while I'm in my youth? What if I'm broke? Should I be putting all my energy into a successful career? Should I be dating seriously at this age?
Our 20s is probably the most confusing, yet exciting but delusional time that a person will go through in their lives. In each episode, Ellen goes into all the experiences she's been through as a 24 year old, in hopes that someone else will relate to her experiences and feel less alone about what they're going through.
I've met SO many people who are people pleasers. At our age, it's pretty common given that we want to make lots of friends and not be on anybody's bad side.
While it seems like being a people pleaser might be beneficial to people around you, it also happens to be one of the worst forms of self-sabotage.
It's ironic because you're pleasing everybody but yourself.
In this episode, I share my detailed thoughts as a people-pleaser myself and how I try to alter those thoughts in a healthy way so that I learn to put myself first.
If you suffer with being a people pleaser too, just know that I can empathize heavily with you and I hope this episode will help you to overcome that and be a better person for yourself :)
