Ever wondered who ensures those steamy (or awkward) on-screen moments don’t turn into a total nightmare for actors? Meet Rayann, an intimacy coordinator, director, and casting pro with 25 years in the arts, who's on a mission to change how Singapore and Southeast Asia handle intimacy on screen.
From tackling cultural taboos to applying consent and boundaries beyond film, think relationships, parenting, even the workplace, Rayann breaks it all down. If you've ever cringed at a badly done love scene or wondered how to teach kids about personal space without making it weird, this one's for you.
Tune in, because intimacy isn’t just about romance, it’s about how we connect with everyone.
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Chapters:
0:00 Start of Episode
01:41 Introduction of Ryann Condy
01:57 Joanne’s First Intimacy Experience
03:06 What is an Intimacy Coordinator?
03:39 Intimacy Coordination in America vs. SEA
08:11 The Me Too Movement
09:07 Ryann’s Process as an Intimacy Coordinator
13:33 What is the Fear of Power on Set?
15:54 When Does an Intimacy Coordinator Come In?18:15 How Does Consent Work?
20:03 Intimacy Call
21:15 What Actors Think Before Doing Intimate Scenes
23:08 Intimacy Kits
25:22 How Are Intimate Scenes Made Realistic?
27:20 Intimate Scenes Throughout the Years
28:45 Crew’s Involvement in Intimate Scenes
31:37 What are Boundaries? What is Okay Cross?
33:00 How to Identify Your Boundaries
35:56 How to Articulate Your Boundaries
41:12 How to Teach Kids Articulating Their Boundaries
44:51 How We Should Respond To Other People’s Boundaries
45:32 Consent & Boundaries in the Corporate Space
53:27 How Do You Process A Boundary That’s Been Crossed?
55:01 Does It Help to Confront Your Perpetrator?
56:24 Communicating Boundaries Effectively
58:08 Farewells
01:00:36 End of Episode
