What does it mean to grow old with grace, purpose, and joy?
In this second episode of DIS Conversation, we explore the beauty and depth of life’s later seasons. Pastor Ray sits down with Geok Cheng, and Alvin— two individuals whose lives reflect what it truly means to age with purpose, faith, and joy.
Listen in as they share heartfelt stories of grandparenting, ministry, health challenges, and spiritual growth in their senior years. From singing Sunday School songs with grandchildren to leading church-wide events after retirement, their journeys are rich with wisdom, vulnerability, and faith.
💬 “Don’t write off the seniors—we haven’t reached our expiry date!”💬 “Ministry is not just programmes—it’s presence, listening, and love.”
Whether you're a senior, caring for one, or simply want to understand how to finish life’s race well, this episode will inspire and challenge you. So grab a cup of tea, settle in, and join us as we discover how ageing can be not just endured—but embraced—as a deeply fulfilling journey.
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DIS Conversation is an insightful podcast by Wesley Methodist Church that explores real-life societal issues through the lens of Christian discipleship. With heartfelt conversations and practical reflections, each episode encourages believers to live out their faith with compassion and purpose—bringing Christ’s love into everyday spaces and serving His purpose in the world.
About Our Guest
Koh Geok Cheng is married to Henry Tan. They have 2 married adult sons and are grandparents to a 4½ months old grandson. Geok Cheng was an accountant and retired 25 years ago to be homemaker to raise her sons. She has served in the Parents Support Group in her sons’ schools, and in various ministries in church including Family Life, Small Group Ministry, Missions and WSCS. Currently she serves as a worship leader in the Traditional service and as Chairperson of Glowing Years Ministry (GYM).
Alvin Tay retired as a newspaper editor in 2018 and now spends his time in church ministry and a charity he co-founded. Alvin is the Chairperson of the Local Church Executive Committee (LCEC). He and his wife, Wendy Tan, are known among their circle of friends in church as the A&W couple. A&W enjoy baby-sitting their first grandson, Micah. They have two sons, Daryl and Keefe, who are married to Gina and Charlotte, respectively.
About Pastor Ray:
Rev Raymond Fong, known in the church community as Pastor Ray, is the Pastor-in-Charge of Wesley Methodist Church.