We talk with our friend, comedy writer Josh Smooha (twitter.com/joshsmooha), all about breakups, and specifically how the advice straight men are usually given is so toxic. We chat about what happens when someone isn't taught how to use certain emotional tools when dealing with this sort of stress, and how that can cause some people to lash out. Plus we talk about how Rom Coms might be a bit at fault here, and what tropes need to be thrown out. Don't forget to send us your questions for the next listener advice episode!! We're Not Together instagram.com/nottogetherpodcast twitter.com/NotTogetherCast nottogetherpodcast@gmail.com Zack instagram.com/zackogre twitter.com/zackogre Haley instagram.com/haley_manrique