Sometimes when we're stuck, it's not because we're not trying hard enough. It's because we're asking questions that keep us spinning in circles: Why is this happening to me? What did I do wrong? These questions often invite blame or shame and close off our options. But asking better questions can open doors. When we shift our focus to What can I do now? How can I grow from this?, we create room for action, hope, and healing. This shift empowers us to move from self-criticism to self-compassion, from confusion to clarity. By learning to pause and choose new questions, we build emotional strength. We discover that even when life feels out of control, we can control our response. That's the power of asking the right question.