Join Tom & Michele as they talk with Joanna & Matthew Raabsmith about the difficult topic about Sex and the difficulty or reintegrating sexual intimacy back into the relationship after the realization of betrayal, whether its porn, infidelity or a secret life now coming out of the darkness. When is it too soon to start having sex again? Will the betrayer feel like everything is ok if we do? Will I be feeding his addiction? Why do I feel so alone? These are just a few of the questions we hear when talking about this with couples and we will dive into these and more with the Raabsmith's in this episode!