This episode of We Are Our Own Lovers focuses on queering sex inside ourselves. Here, Kelsey talks about how their definition of sex has evolved over the last 15 years. Starting with the books, essays, & people who have directly impacted their evolution them moving into several queer experiences that have caused them to open up their definition even further. Warning: if you’re looking for something risqué, this isn’t it. For a podcast about sex this is much more conceptual than explicit, which for Kelsey is the only place to begin. Mentioned resources recommended to explore further: Uses of the Erotic (essay) by Audre Lorde, anything by sex educator Ericka Hart, concepts of deconstruction within Queer theory, & consent practices as explored by intersectional feminist scholars.