In this second lesson of Loving Like Jesus: A 40-Day Journey, Rev. Terence Gray helps us see that our words have extraordinary power—the power to heal or to wound, to build up or to tear down. Through vivid illustrations and practical wisdom, Pastor Terence reminds us that loving like Jesus means speaking truthfully, carefully, and encouragingly. Drawing from Proverbs 18:21 and Ephesians 4, he offers tools like the “H.A.T. check” and the “N.I.C.E. filter” to help us pause before we speak, choose honesty wrapped in grace, and use our voices to strengthen others rather than harm them. Whether in moments of tension or tenderness, our words can reflect the heart of Christ and become instruments of love that last long after they’re spoken.

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