Some wounds aren’t visible. Growing up, I had parents who were physically present but emotionally absent. They provided in many ways, but when it came to guidance, comfort, or emotional safety, there was silence. That silence shaped me. It forced me to learn lessons on my own—the hard way, the painful way, but also the way that eventually made me stronger.
This episode is my attempt to share those lessons—not as advice, but as lived truth.
✨ Here’s what I explore:
Grief beyond death - grief isn’t only about losing loved ones. It’s also about mourning the love, care, or nurturing you never received. I talk about how this kind of grief lingers and how I learned to name it instead of ignoring it.
Boundaries as survival tools - when family members cross emotional lines or when relationships drain us, boundaries are the invisible shield we need. I discuss how difficult it was to set boundaries with people I loved and why it saved my peace.
Understanding emotions - for years, I didn’t know how to process feelings. I either suppressed them or overreacted. Slowly, I learned the language of emotions - naming what I feel, allowing myself to feel it, and then letting it pass without shame.
Self-worth and identity - growing up without consistent validation often meant I doubted myself in every area. I share how I rebuilt a sense of self-worth that wasn’t dependent on others’ approval.
Money and responsibility - without parental guidance, I had to learn financial independence the hard way. Making mistakes, falling, and rising again taught me resilience and responsibility.
Self-care as necessity - not face masks and spa days, but real self-care: rest, saying no, choosing healthier people, nourishing my body, and protecting my mental health.
💡 The bigger lesson?
That healing is possible. That while we can’t rewrite the past or make our parents show up the way we needed, we can choose to show up for ourselves today.
This episode is for anyone who has ever felt unseen, unheard, or unsupported. For anyone who has had to raise themselves emotionally, even in a house full of people. For anyone who’s still learning, like me, how to break cycles and live with compassion and strength.
If your parents were there but not really there—this one’s for you.