In our last episode, we met Sam, a communications manager wrestling with self-doubt and hesitation. Together with guest Hussain Halak, we explored how fulfillment and resilience begin when we stop clinging to ourselves and start serving others. In this solo episode, Jay expands on that idea with a powerful framework drawn from his upcoming book and TEDx talk. He explains why our primal brains are wired to constantly scan for threats, how that wiring keeps us self-absorbed, and what it really takes to break free. Through research and personal reflection, Jay reveals three essential components: safety, concentration, and connection. It allows us to “lose ourselves,” the very state where happiness, performance, and resilience flourish. Jay walks listeners through practical ways to create inner safety by caring for physical well-being and learning to respond rather than react, to cultivate focus in a world full of distractions, and to intentionally reconnect every day to people and purpose. With these three practices in place, you’ll have the foundation to thrive no matter what challenges come your way. Notable Quotes “Safety is the foundation. Without it, the mind will always search for threats instead of possibilities.” — Jay Abbasi “Focus is like holding the reins of a wild horse. If you can guide your attention, you can guide your life.” — Jay Abbasi “Connection is what the human heart is chasing. Without it, we simply can’t thrive.” — Jay Abbasi Resources and Links Jay Abbasi Website: https://jayabbasi.me/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jayabbasi/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayabbasi_/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thejayabbasi/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@jayabbasipodcast Get Featured on “Unstuck” Want to have your story featured on “Unstuck”? Submit your story through the link below, and Jay may choose to highlight your story on a future episode and offer you personalized advice on how to overcome any challenge. Submit Your Story Join Us Next Time In Monday’s episode, Jay introduces Chloe, the Director of Supply Management at a leading electronics manufacturer. Chloe feels stuck in a loop, taking orders, checking boxes, and going unnoticed, because she struggles to advocate for herself. Jay will be joined by Stacey Hanke, Hall of Fame speaker and communications expert, to explore how someone like Chloe can find her voice, speak with confidence, and influence the direction of her team and organization. Don’t miss this inspiring and actionable discussion!