Unruly Podcast | Exploring Travel, Activism & Alternative Culture
Calen Otto - Travel Writer & Podcast Host
84 episodes
1 week ago
There’s one transition we’ll all experience but hardly talk about: Death. Whether out of fear or taboo, so much of our culture and communities shy away from the topic. Still, it lingers in the back of our mind and flutters in our subconscious.
On the topic of dying and deathwork we interview Scott Kirschenbaum, known for his stunning documentaries where he captures some of life's most intense and raw moments.
His work with Ethan Sisser was no different; after learning of a young man with brain cancer, Scott agreed to filming his final weeks — and moments — of life. After spending fourteen days at his bedside, Scott’s relationship with death was transformed.
“If you love something, start grieving for it. If you love someone, start grieving for them.”
In this episode we discuss:
* What it means to die in community
* How reciprocity can be created in all aspects of life, including death
* What the practice of “cracking your heart open” looks like in real time
* “Slow death” and why it matters
* Reflections for planning our own final moments
SHOWNOTES
- 2026 Unruly Finca Ganadito trip: https://www.wetravel.com/trips/finca-ganadito-in-costa-rica-calen-otto-01051353
- Unruly Group Trips: https://wanderwoman.online/unruly-group-trips/
- Join the Unruly Patreon: patreon.com/unrulytravel
- The Last Ecstatic Days: https://www.thelastecstaticdaysmovie.com/about
- Wailing Earth Docuseries: https://www.youtube.com/@TempleofSeaweed
- Unruly Travel & Living Blog: unrulytravel.com
-Unruly email newsletter: buff.ly/4a1bPwT
- Support the podcast: SoundCloud - @unrulystories, Venmo - @unruytravel
- Contact: calenotto@gmail.com
- Unruly Instagram: www.instagram.com/unruly_traveller
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There’s one transition we’ll all experience but hardly talk about: Death. Whether out of fear or taboo, so much of our culture and communities shy away from the topic. Still, it lingers in the back of our mind and flutters in our subconscious.
On the topic of dying and deathwork we interview Scott Kirschenbaum, known for his stunning documentaries where he captures some of life's most intense and raw moments.
His work with Ethan Sisser was no different; after learning of a young man with brain cancer, Scott agreed to filming his final weeks — and moments — of life. After spending fourteen days at his bedside, Scott’s relationship with death was transformed.
“If you love something, start grieving for it. If you love someone, start grieving for them.”
In this episode we discuss:
* What it means to die in community
* How reciprocity can be created in all aspects of life, including death
* What the practice of “cracking your heart open” looks like in real time
* “Slow death” and why it matters
* Reflections for planning our own final moments
SHOWNOTES
- 2026 Unruly Finca Ganadito trip: https://www.wetravel.com/trips/finca-ganadito-in-costa-rica-calen-otto-01051353
- Unruly Group Trips: https://wanderwoman.online/unruly-group-trips/
- Join the Unruly Patreon: patreon.com/unrulytravel
- The Last Ecstatic Days: https://www.thelastecstaticdaysmovie.com/about
- Wailing Earth Docuseries: https://www.youtube.com/@TempleofSeaweed
- Unruly Travel & Living Blog: unrulytravel.com
-Unruly email newsletter: buff.ly/4a1bPwT
- Support the podcast: SoundCloud - @unrulystories, Venmo - @unruytravel
- Contact: calenotto@gmail.com
- Unruly Instagram: www.instagram.com/unruly_traveller
87. Hitchhiking The Globe: How To Change Your Life With One Big Decision
Unruly Podcast | Exploring Travel, Activism & Alternative Culture
49 minutes 44 seconds
4 months ago
87. Hitchhiking The Globe: How To Change Your Life With One Big Decision
Have you ever wanted to transform your life? Sure, we can tweak a habit here and there from our usual comfortable perch. But sometimes we feel a rumble from down deep in our bellies; adventure and change is calling, but we’re too scared to answer.
What can happen when we do? Here today to answer that question is Jonny Wright, hitchhiker extraordinaire and fan of irreversible decisions. After traveling the globe, traversing 22 countries through over 17,000 miles of hitchhiking, Jonny knows what it means to make a single big decision that changes everything.
After a big breakup, move, and pandemic, Jonny knew that he needed a big change — to shake things up so much that they could never settle back to normal — but didn’t know where to start.
Now armed with hard-earned wisdom from the road, he teaches us how to pinpoint the changes that we need to make and the direction we need to go when we can’t seem to figure out where to begin.
Additionally, Jonny shares:
- Why hitchhiking is a risk he’s willing to take
- How to hitchhike as effectively as possible
- How to hitchhike Europe
- How hitchhiking is a teacher of impulse, intuition, and self regulation
- What it takes financially to plan a months long trip
- His magnificent Turkish wedding story form the road
You’ll leave this episode with a fresh perspective on humanity and feasible steps to for listening to the wise voice inside you, guiding you to a fulfilling life.
SHOWNOTES
- Join the Unruly Podcast on Patreon: www.patreon.com/unrulytravel
- Quouch App (queer CouchSurfing): quouch-app.com
- Go and Find Out: https://open.spotify.com/show/7oBbiKeq7qhAYTSF9dmYcY
- The Art of Unruly Travel on a Budget: https://wanderwoman.online/unrulystore/The-Art-of-Unruly-Travel-on-a-Budget-Paperback-p390907964
- River's 'Agua de Sapo' Costa Rica reflection: https://wanderwoman.online/fathoms-below-lgbtq-travel-scholarship-1/
- Music at 21:55 and 32:48 by Frail Jonny: https://open.spotify.com/artist/1Uq2RXmIL2QYw9gCauj3dx
SHOWNOTES
- Join the Unruly Podcast on Patreon: www.patreon.com/unrulytravel
- Quouch App (queer CouchSurfing): quouch-app.com
- Go and Find Out: open.spotify.com/show/7oBbiKeq7qhAYTSF9dmYcY
- The Art of Unruly Travel on a Budget: wanderwoman.online/unrulystore/The…back-p390907964
- River's 'Agua de Sapo' Costa Rica reflection: wanderwoman.online/fathoms-below-l…-scholarship-1/
- Music at 21:55 and 32:48 by Frail Jonny: open.spotify.com/artist/1Uq2RXmIL2QYw9gCauj3dx
- Unruly Travel & Living Blog: unrulytravel.com -
-Unruly email newsletter: buff.ly/4a1bPwT
- Support the podcast: SoundCloud - @unrulystories, Venmo - @unruytravel
- Contact: calenotto@gmail.com
- Unruly Instagram: www.instagram.com/unruly_traveller
Unruly Podcast | Exploring Travel, Activism & Alternative Culture
There’s one transition we’ll all experience but hardly talk about: Death. Whether out of fear or taboo, so much of our culture and communities shy away from the topic. Still, it lingers in the back of our mind and flutters in our subconscious.
On the topic of dying and deathwork we interview Scott Kirschenbaum, known for his stunning documentaries where he captures some of life's most intense and raw moments.
His work with Ethan Sisser was no different; after learning of a young man with brain cancer, Scott agreed to filming his final weeks — and moments — of life. After spending fourteen days at his bedside, Scott’s relationship with death was transformed.
“If you love something, start grieving for it. If you love someone, start grieving for them.”
In this episode we discuss:
* What it means to die in community
* How reciprocity can be created in all aspects of life, including death
* What the practice of “cracking your heart open” looks like in real time
* “Slow death” and why it matters
* Reflections for planning our own final moments
SHOWNOTES
- 2026 Unruly Finca Ganadito trip: https://www.wetravel.com/trips/finca-ganadito-in-costa-rica-calen-otto-01051353
- Unruly Group Trips: https://wanderwoman.online/unruly-group-trips/
- Join the Unruly Patreon: patreon.com/unrulytravel
- The Last Ecstatic Days: https://www.thelastecstaticdaysmovie.com/about
- Wailing Earth Docuseries: https://www.youtube.com/@TempleofSeaweed
- Unruly Travel & Living Blog: unrulytravel.com
-Unruly email newsletter: buff.ly/4a1bPwT
- Support the podcast: SoundCloud - @unrulystories, Venmo - @unruytravel
- Contact: calenotto@gmail.com
- Unruly Instagram: www.instagram.com/unruly_traveller
