What if feeling lost is exactly where you're meant to start? In this episode of Unlock Your Blocks, Elyssa Smith sits down with Hilary Spiritos, a pathfinding coach who specializes in helping young adults navigate major life transitions. Together, they explore how self-sabotage, inner child work, and societal expectations shape the post-high school journey. Hilary shares how courage, safety, and deep self-awareness can help young people discover their authentic direction—and why it’s okay not to have it all figured out. If you're in a season of change or supporting someone who is, this conversation offers wisdom, warmth, and grounded guidance. ✅ What You’ll Learn: Why life transitions can trigger fear, self-doubt, and resistance The power of coaching in helping young adults find clarity How external expectations and inner beliefs fuel self-sabotage Why connecting with the inner child is key to growth The importance of building internal safety before making big decisions How small acts of courage create momentum Ways to honor your desires in the face of societal pressure Why you’re not alone in feeling uncertain 🕒 Episode Chapters: 00:00 – Navigating Life Transitions 02:25 – The Role of a Pathfinding Coach 07:42 – Overcoming Self-Sabotage and Limiting Beliefs 11:45 – Finding Your Authentic Path 16:34 – Understanding the Inner Child 22:02 – Building Safety and Courage 30:12 – First Steps Towards Freedom   📲 Connect with Elyssa for More Inspiration: 📸 Instagram: @elyssacsmith 👥 Facebook Group: The Stressless Lounge   Connect with Hilary: Website: https://batouttahell.net/ TikTok/Instagram: @bat.outta_hell Calendly: https://calendly.com/batouttahell