Why does modern dating feel so rigged for failure? Why do so many of us keep dating the same person with a different face? Why do men and women seem to talk past each other, missing the very signals that could build intimacy—or destroy it?
In this session, Dr. David Snyder pulls back the curtain on the psychology of attraction, revealing why most people struggle with dating, mating, and relating—and how to turn those frustrations into breakthroughs. Whether you’re looking for Mr. or Mrs. Right, or just Mr. or Mrs. Right Now, you’ll discover actionable tools to make connections that actually last.
Here’s what you’ll learn inside:
Why modern dating dynamics are stacked against you—and how to flip the script.
How to recognize and avoid the trap of “same person, different face.”
The body language cues and “mating dance” signals that reveal real attraction.
How to create trust, comfort, and connection faster than you thought possible.
The secret to becoming the most fascinating conversationalist your date has ever met.
If you’ve ever felt frustrated, rejected, or simply exhausted by the dating game, this training offers a roadmap to confidence, clarity, and connection.
Quotes:
"Confidence comes with taking action. Action comes from knowing what the hell you’re doing."
"You can’t find a soulmate until you know who you are, what you want, and how you know that you’re getting it."
"The secret to making any form of attraction work is being able to pay attention to what the partner is doing, and being able to calibrate if what you’re doing is moving them towards intimacy and connection or away from it."
Key Takeaways:
Define your "ideal partner template" by identifying your personal values, love language, and attachment style. Write down what you truly want in a partner and how you’ll know when you’ve found it.
Practice the "three magic questions protocol" to create engaging, trust-building conversations with new people. Focus on asking questions that encourage others to open up and share meaningful aspects of their lives.
Reflect on your own patterns of projection in relationships. Ask yourself: “Am I assuming others think and feel the same way I do? How might this affect my interactions?”
Make it a priority to approach dating and relationships with a sense of fun and curiosity, rather than pressure or expectation. Notice how your state of mind influences your attractiveness and the quality of your connections.
Episode Timeline:
[0:07:00] Webinar Structure & Audience Engagement
Explanation of the three phases: Foundations, Next Steps, Customization. Invites audience to share what they want to learn and addresses initial questions.
[0:15:00] Defining Attraction, Seduction, and Language
Discusses the difference between attraction and seduction. Explains the power of language, dictionary definitions, common usage, and meta messages.
[0:25:00] Gender Dynamics & Relationship Patterns
Explores differences in how men and women approach dating and relationships. Discusses common pitfalls, emotional intimacy, and communication challenges.
[0:40:00] The Importance of Fun, State Control, and Inner Game
Emphasizes the value of fun and positive state in attraction. Introduces the concepts of inner game (self-awareness, values) and outer game (techniques).
[0:55:00] Actionable Techniques & The Three Magic Questions
Introduces the “three magic questions protocol” for building trust and connection. Discusses body language, projection, and reading social cues.
[1:10:00] Creating Your Ideal Partner Template & Final Thoughts
Encourages listeners to define their ideal partner and life values. Wraps up with lessons on self-improvement, mutual attraction, and actionable next steps.
Links:
To learn more about Dr. David Snyder and everything about NLP, visit:
Website: https://www.nlppower.com/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DavidSnyderNLP
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/davidsnydernlp