In this episode, I share what happened during my recent trip to Washington, DC — a trip meant to present important research but marked by frustrating and painful travel experiences. From inaccessible seating to equipment failures, I break down what went wrong, what worked, and what needs to change.

I walk through my experience of being transferred down a narrow airplane aisle, the challenges of being placed in row 27, and how bruised hips and delayed boarding were the result of poor planning and lack of accessibility. I also explain how I advocated for myself on the return flight and how that made all the difference.

I share my personal advocacy approach: don’t ask — state. Say what you need clearly, directly, and respectfully. I also talk about the risks of renting mobility equipment and what happened when I ended up with a chair that didn’t meet my needs. Despite the setbacks, I highlight what worked in Washington — accessible metros, accessible cabs, and a community that made getting around possible.

This episode is more than just a travel story. It’s a call to recognize how inaccessible systems block people with disabilities from professional, personal, and life-changing opportunities. I offer real-world strategies and practical takeaways for anyone navigating these same challenges.

Topics Covered:

• Unsafe airline practices for wheelchair users

• The importance of proper seat assignments

• My advocacy method for air travel and beyond

• The risk of broken or inadequate rental chairs

• The value of accessible public transportation and cabs

• The need for structural changes like tie-down systems on planes

Key Message:
Traveling with a disability should not require this much sacrifice. When we speak up clearly and consistently, change becomes possible.

Contact and Feedback:
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