In this episode of Unfiltered Resilience, I’m sharing some deeply personal — and frankly, frustrating — experiences navigating a healthcare system that often overlooks, delays, or outright dismisses the concerns of people with disabilities. From a shoulder injury ignored for years, to a gallbladder issue no one wanted to take seriously, I talk about what it took to finally get the care I needed. Spoiler alert: ableism shows up more than you think.

I reflect on the subtle and not-so-subtle ways bias creeps into exam rooms, how it wears you down over time, and why self-advocacy — even when it’s exhausting — can’t be optional. This isn’t just about me. It’s about the very real barriers many of us face just trying to stay healthy.

If you've ever had to fight just to be heard in a doctor’s office, this one’s for you.