Send us a text This week, Kodie & Kay go there: what we’ll do for love—and what we absolutely won’t. We unpack how “types” evolve while you heal, why dating outside your usual lane can change everything, and where compromise ends and self-betrayal begins. From religious differences (would you convert?), sober-month promises, long-distance effort, and the “fixer” trap to setting non-negotiables that actually protect your peace. If you’ve ever lowered your standards, dated “potential,” or t...

Send us a text This week, the Unengaged girlies kick off Say No November—30 days of boundaries, detox, and getting brutally honest about what isn’t serving us. We talk alcohol breaks, people-pleasing relapse, dating apps delete, and how it feels to heal in public when your situationship is lurking on your podcast feed. We unpack the “quiet middle” of growth (when life isn’t a crisis but also…not exciting yet), the difference between authenticity vs. aesthetic online, and why your “old you” de...

Send us a text Spooky season gets dark. 🎃 In this true crime deep dive, Kay & Kodie unpack two of America’s most infamous cases — the Zodiac Killer’s unsolved murders and ciphers that haunted California, and Lorena Bobbitt’s shocking story of survival, trauma, and revenge. You’ll hear the full timeline of Zodiac’s killings, the cryptic letters that taunted police, and the main suspect, Arthur Leigh Allen. Then we switch gears to Lorena’s story — the abuse, the night she snapped, and how t...

Send us a text It’s officially spooky szn and the girls are judging. 👻 Kodie & Kay are ranking 2025’s hottest Halloween costumes for women, men, and couples — from Medusa and Mia Wallace to Maverick, Mojo Dojo Ken, and Morticia & Gomez — and exposing what each costume really says about your dating life. Expect savage honesty, chaotic games, and zero basic energy as we play: 🔥 Date, Ditch, or Die For — who would you actually take home from the party? 🕸️ Who’s Most Likely To... — ghost ...

Send us a text What happens when two best friends manifest a weekend with Alex Cooper, end up front row at Unwell Vegas, and somehow become part of the show? 😳 This week, we’re recapping the Unwell Vegas Weekend — from the pool parties and Paris Hilton’s DJ set to Heather McMahan calling Kodie out and the entire crowd chanting “Kodie! Kodie!” It’s manifestation, chaos, and divine timing all rolled into one unforgettable trip. 💫 We talk about: ✨ How surrendering turned everything into mag...

Send us a text Single, healing, and raising your standards? This episode is your permission slip to treat your single era like the main event. Kodie & Kay get real about the highs (freedom, friendship, saying yes) and the lows (lonely nights, third-wheeling), plus the healing work that actually changes who you attract. We unpack mistakes from the talking stage, breadcrumbing, people-pleasing, setting non-negotiables, and how to know when you’re truly ready for love again (hint: when anyon...

Send us a text This week on The Unengaged Podcast, Kodie and Kay take a raw, funny, and unfiltered dive into how social media is shaping our lives — for better and for worse. From MySpace Top 8 drama and doomscrolling TikTok at 2am, to conspiracy theory rabbit holes, AI filters, and the Mandela Effect, we explore how our feeds influence our self-image, relationships, and even reality. We break down: ✨ The nostalgia of MySpace playlists & “walkout songs” ✨ Why your Instagram bio might say ...

Send us a text Marilyn Lawrence (author, speaker, and intuitive messenger) joins us to break down intuition, energy hygiene, and how to tune into guidance that’s always around you. She shares her real-life origin story — from distracted dating to a spa-day moment that set her on purpose — and gives practical steps everyone can use: daily clearing rituals, how to read subtle signals, and ways to stop getting distracted so messages can come through. Perfect for anyone curious about psychic gift...

Send us a text Balance is cute in theory—impossible in real life. This week, we call BS on “work–life balance” and break down a healthier framework: living in seasons. From football season obsession to mom season, lover-girl era, career sprints, and wellness resets—we talk about how to choose your season on purpose, spot the signs it’s time to pivot (burnout, restlessness, new opportunities), and realign without guilt. We also get real about night-owl vs. morning-person rewires, single-to-par...

Send us a text Labor Day just wrapped and we’re calling it: preseason is over. In this week’s Unengaged Podcast, Kodie & Kay break down the official Cuffing Season Calendar — from the Labor Day “roster cuts” to October draft picks, holiday tryouts, New Year’s playoffs, and the Valentine’s Day Super Bowl. We recap summer flings, talk friends-with-benefits vs. situationships, and share the real red flags that should not make your starting lineup (gift-giving, family vibes, football Sunday c...

Send us a text This week on The Unengaged Podcast, we sit down with Raquel — the powerhouse photographer behind Blush Boudoir Studio — as she celebrates 5 years in business and spills all the secrets on confidence, body image, and how to actually take the perfect nude. From implied nudity with sheets, to boudoir photoshoots that heal after divorce or mark life milestones, Raquel shares how women of every age, size, and stage can step into their power. We cover: ✨ Tips & tricks for taking ...

Send us a text We’ve officially hit 25 episodes of The Unengaged Podcast — that’s half a year of oversharing, growth, and real conversations. 🎙️ In this milestone episode, Kodie and Kaleigh put each other in the hot seat with a friendship Q&A. From toxic traits, worst exes, and dating disasters to soul ties, forgiveness, and starting over, we share it all. We open up about the hardest truths we’ve had to learn, the weirdest DMs we’ve ever gotten, and even play Fuck, Marry, Kill: Jesus, Bu...

Send us a text Ever had the gut-punch realization: “Wait… I’m the problem?” This week, Kodie and Kaleigh get real about being the red flag in your own love story—and what happens when self-sabotage, trust issues, and old heartbreaks follow you into something new. From dating after toxic relationships to learning how to stop holding new partners to old wounds, we unpack why we sometimes destroy something good before it even starts. You’ll hear raw confessions, laugh-out-loud analogies, and the...

Send us a text Y’all… we just lived through the most iconic concert of the summer and we’re here to recap every wild moment from Morgan Wallen’s sold-out show at Levi’s Stadium. In this episode, we break down: How we scored last-minute floor seats 🙏What it took to sneak into the pit (hint: $20 and some chaos) 💸Morgan’s full setlist, favorite performances, and surprise patriotic moment 🇺🇸Concert crowd energy, outfit highlights, and the emotional rollercoaster that is "Just in Case” 🥹Why p...

Send us a text In this raw, eye‑opening episode, Kay and Kodie unpack what really happens during sex — beyond the physical. From emotional energy transfer and soul ties to the surprising role of cord‑cutting rituals, we explain how sexual intimacy can carry trauma, overthinking, or confidence and healing long after the act. Tune in as we share grotesque vs. gorgeoussex statistics, deep healing strategies like meditation, affirmations, breathwork, and honest advice on post-breakup recovery. Pe...

Send us a text Ever wondered why your ex was a gaslighting Libra or why Aires always ruin your life (and your sleep schedule)? In this must-listen episode of The Unengaged Podcast, Kodie and Kay break down how zodiac signs influence dating, love, sex, red flags, and emotional chaos—with brutally honest stories and zero filter takes. We’re talking: 💔 Which signs are most toxic (Gemini, we’re looking at you) ❤️ The surprising signs that make amazing partners 🌕 How your sun, moon, and rising sig...

Send us a text This week on The Unengaged Podcast, we sit down with Christina Rodriguez — RN, aesthetic injector, business owner, fiancée, and badass mama — for a raw, inspiring convo on turning burnout into a breakthrough. From grinding in the ER during COVID to launching All Things Aesthetics, Christina opens up about building her dream life on her own terms. We dive into: 💉 What clients think they need vs. what they actually need 💪 Juggling motherhood, self-care, and running a business 💖 W...

Send us a text If you've ever: ✔️ Spiraled over a dry text ✔️ Caught feelings in 3 days ✔️ Picked a fight just to feel something …then this one’s for you. In our most personal episode yet, we unpack how ADHD impacts romantic relationships — from rejection sensitivity and impulsivity to dopamine chasing, fast attachments, and the constant need for reassurance. We talk unmedicated chaos, emotional intensity, communication breakdowns, and the hard truth about why some of our past relationships d...

Send us a text On this episode of The Unengaged Podcast, we’re diving into the vacations that shaped us—from surprise mommy-and-me cruises to absolute disasters in Cabo. Kay shares the story of a trip that changed everything, and breaks down her Bahamas cruise, plus tips for traveling solo, with kids, or in chaotic friend groups. We’re talking vacation do’s and don’ts, red flag travel partners, and how to elevate your trip without breaking the bank. Kodie talks Disney, and the impact your com...

Send us a text We soft launched a man, danced under the stars, and got called out for not being from around here—but that was just the beginning. This episode is a full rollercoaster: high vibes, chaotic storytelling, green flags that gave us butterflies, and the hardest question in dating—Would you date YOU? We unpack why being an overthinker is both our biggest ick and our greatest asset, what it’s like dating in a small town, and why if it’s not fireworks... we’re out. Let’s just say—we’re...