OH MY GODS We're on Episode 11!!!
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Today we talk with the most amazing ARO/ACE and one of my absolute best friends! I've Known Samara since we were both in 5th grade!! 20 years of friendship definitely shows in this episode!
The Takeaways from the episode:
1) Asexuality/ Aromanticism are valid identities
2) Asexuals and Aromantics do masturbate and some even have sex
3) Masturbating to sleep is real and healthy
4) Written erotica is a valid form of porn
5) Developing and labeling your sexual identity is a personal choice and can be life long
6) Language around sexuality is ever evolving and without inclusive Sex ed we don't understand ourselves cause we won't know how to define who we are.
7) Baby Asexuals find a support system or debelop a support system that helps you enjoy yourself and love you for being yourself
8) Don't force yourself to conform to societies messages around dating and love; do what feels right to you!
9) Cut people off if they violate your boundaries
10) You are not responsible to educate people about who you are!!
11) You have to be able to have uncomfortable convos
12) Alone and lonely are 2 different things
Here is my bio: Samara Cogan (she/her/hers) is an asexual/aromantic millennial with a passion for helping others. When she’s not volunteering, you can find her basking in “alone time”, listening to podcasts, and making extensive lists. You can find her on Twitter (@samaracogan, tell her DG sent you!) or contact her by email (Samara.cogan@gmail.com).
Here are the links:
1. Archive of Our Own-
2. The Asexual Visibility & Education Network (AVEN)-
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