In this episode of Unapologetic Motherhood, host Courtney Bazely shares her personal journey through the challenges of motherhood, including the grief of losing her sister-in-law, navigating the complexities of parenting during COVID, and the struggles of raising twins. She reflects on her experiences in survival mode, the emotional toll it took on her, and the importance of recognizing when to ask for help. Courtney emphasizes the need for balance between masculine and feminine energies in parenting and encourages mothers to embrace their authenticity and seek support from their communities.

Takeaways:

I was parenting in survival mode and just trying to make it through.

Survival mode doesn't mean you're failing as a mom.

I was living through things I never thought I would have to live through.

It's okay to wish for time away from your child.

You can go months without realizing you're in survival mode.

I was justifying unhealthy habits because I was productive.

I felt like I had to be the only one to handle everything.

Letting go of control allows for more spontaneity in life.

Asking for help is essential for mental health.

Building a community for moms is crucial for support.

Chapters:

00:00

Introduction and Personal Update

01:57

Survival Mode in Motherhood

09:34

Navigating Grief and New Roles

12:11

The Challenges of Twin Pregnancy

15:39

Breaking Point and Realizations

20:11

Balancing Masculine and Feminine Energy

25:07

Building Community and Support