In this reflective episode, Kelsey and Devan explore The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz—a small but powerful book that has shaped their personal growth, relationships, and self-awareness journeys. From overcoming self-judgment to practicing authenticity, the besties break down how these timeless teachings can transform everyday life.
Key Topics & Highlights:
The Dream of the Planet: How inherited beliefs and generational “agreements” shape the way we see ourselves—and why it’s worth questioning them.
Mistakes & Self-Judgment: Why humans punish themselves over and over, and how breaking that cycle can bring more emotional freedom.
The Four Agreements in Action:
Be impeccable with your word — The power of language, truth, and self-talk.
Don’t take anything personally — Remembering that other people’s behavior is about them, not you.
Don’t make assumptions — Replacing stories with clarity, communication, and curiosity.
Always do your best — Redefining “your best” as flexible, intentional, and rooted in self-compassion.
Everyday Practice: How Devan and Kelsey use these teachings in relationships, parenting, business, and personal growth—plus the reality of still messing up sometimes and trying again.
Memorable Quotes:
“Your word can create the most beautiful dream, or your word can destroy everything around you.”
“When someone snaps at you or judges you, that’s about them—not you.”
“Doing your best is about effort and intention, not perfection.”
Tune in for:
A beginner-friendly breakdown of The Four Agreements
Honest stories of applying (and struggling with) these principles
Laughter, real talk, and encouragement to live with more self-awareness and compassion.
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