Welcome to the fiery finale of our four-part series! In this episode, Kelsey and Devan throw down the glittery black carpet and invite you to unapologetically walk into your villain era—the one where you stop apologizing for being too much and start loving yourself loudly.
In this episode, we dive into:
What it actually means to be in your villain era (hint: it’s not about being evil)
Rewriting self-worth stories and ditching the “earn your worth” mentality
Why comparison is a tool of oppression (especially for women)
The myth of imposter syndrome and why it’s keeping you small
Prioritizing yourself without guilt (yes, even if it makes people uncomfortable)
How the “blue guy” from Megamind is your new self-worth icon
Plus, Devan shares her behind-the-scenes process of revamping her self-doubt course into a bold new immersive audio bundle: Stop Talking Sh*t About Yourself — and spills the tea on the funnel she’s building around it (no gatekeeping here).
Kelsey gets real about silencing herself in the past, learning to take up space, and that moment she realized loving yourself out loud isn’t conceited—it’s revolutionary.
Favorite quotes from this episode:
“I’m not going to shrink myself just because I take up more space.”
“You’re not the villain for prioritizing yourself. You’re just finally not the sidekick.”
“Comparison is a tool of oppression—and we’re not playing that game anymore.”
Don’t forget: If you’ve listened to episodes 35–38, there’s a special giveaway waiting for you! Go binge the series and listen for the details.
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