In this episode of the Twin Flame Truth® Podcast, Elle Hari welcomes Certified Be With Your Twin Flame® Coach Ann, a seasoned practitioner specializing in the mind-body connection, to explore how this essential aspect influences the twin flame journey. Ann shares her personal experience of navigating health challenges during soul recognition and how she integrated her understanding of energy and vitality to find balance. Together, Elle and Coach Ann discuss: The Impact of the Twin Flame Journey on Health: Coach Ann reveals how, despite a long-standing interest in health and vitality, the twin flame path led to unexpected shifts in her body and energy. The Mind-Body-Energy Connection: They dive into how physical health, mental state, and spiritual energy are interconnected, and how balancing these can support the twin flame journey. Overcoming Imbalances: Ann shares her struggle with hormonal imbalances and the tools she used, including Ayurvedic principles, to restore harmony in her body and energy. They discuss the importance of patience and energy work to stabilize the body during the tumultuous twin flame experience. NOTES: Guest Introduction: Certified Be With Your Twin Flame® Coach Ann, a practitioner with extensive experience in health and vitality, and a deep understanding of the twin flame journey. Coach Ann’s Journey: She shares how her health changed dramatically during her soul recognition phase, despite her knowledge in energy work. Ayurvedic Insights: Discover how integrating Ayurvedic principles can support the twin flame path by restoring energy balance. Key Takeaways: The importance of balancing energy first before physical and mental practices. Why self-love and self-care are essential in maintaining harmony during the twin flame process. How body and mind healing can impact the journey, especially in terms of hormonal balance. Common Issues Faced by Her Clients: Struggling with the balance between spiritual energy and physical well-being during the twin flame journey. Over-reliance on external systems (e.g., astrology, religion, or healing practices) for answers. Difficulty managing emotional imbalances and energy disruptions that can arise during soul recognition. Religion, Spirituality & External Power: How fear-based systems, including religion and external authorities, often take away our power and autonomy. The importance of reclaiming personal power and trusting your inner wisdom during the twin flame journey. The role of spirituality as a tool for self-discovery, not for seeking external validation or control. Role of the Coach: Coach Ann highlights her role as a guide who helps individuals balance their energy, regain control of their vitality, and heal from imbalances that may occur during the twin flame journey. She shares how her own journey led her to discover the transformative power of integrating body, mind, and energy work. Final Messages: Stop looking outside of yourself for answers: True healing and growth come from within. Surrender control and trust your soul’s orchestration: Embrace the flow of life and trust that the universe has a plan for you. You are meant to walk this path—it’s perfect as it is: Every experience along the twin flame journey is a lesson that brings you closer to your true self. 💬 Quotes from the Episode:"The body will always try to rebalance itself. All we need is patience." – Coach Ann"You can only sustain energy balancing with body work." – Coach Ann"When we live in a state of unconditional love, our vitality improves." – Coach Ann"The twin flame journey is challenging, but focusing on feeling good in your body is a plus." – Coach Ann   About Coach Ann My path into personal development began years ago, when I faced significant challenges in my own journey and I made the pivotal decision to learn and grow. The twin flame journey sparked in me a deep fascination with the world of human connection

In this episode of the Twin Flame Truth® Podcast, Elle Hari welcomes Monte Blu, a certified Be With Your Twin Flame® coach, to discuss the unique challenges faced by spiritual seekers—especially empaths, psychics, lightworkers, and energy healers—on the twin flame journey. Monte shares her raw and personal experience of how her usual spiritual tools stopped working after soul recognition, forcing her to surrender old paradigms and learn to simply be. Together, Elle and Monte explore how fear-based energy can hide beneath even the most spiritual practices, why trying to “heal” your twin flame never works, and how the journey calls us to reclaim our power by releasing external authority. They also touch on celestial events, astrology, religion, and the illusion of needing anything outside of yourself to feel whole. NOTES: Guest Introduction: Monte Blu, a certified Be With Your Twin Flame® coach and lifelong intuitive, energy worker, and seer. Who Monte Works With: Empaths, lightworkers, psychics, spiritual practitioners—especially those struggling to make sense of the journey when their spiritual tools stop working. Monte’s Twin Flame Journey: Decades of experience in spiritual and energy work Shocked when traditional tools failed after soul recognition Found clarity and resonance through Elle Hari’s coaching modules Realized the importance of neutrality and presence Common Issues Faced by Her Clients: Over-reliance on spiritual tools like tarot, astrology, or visualization Difficulty letting go of identity as “healer” or “fixer” Belief that their psychic gifts should give them an edge—when they don’t Feeling destabilized, lost, or “blocked” energetically Spiritual Trap of “Helping” the Twin Flame: Attempting to heal or guide the twin flame pushes them away True union only arises from balancing your own energy Focus must return inward—healing others becomes misalignment Religion, Spirituality & External Power: How fear-based systems (including religion and astrology) take your power The mind's habit of seeking safety in external narratives Real power is reclaiming responsibility for your energy and choices Role of Celestial Events: Some moons or retrogrades affect individuals due to energy sensitivity These events don’t control you—they reflect your inner state The soul is expansive, like the sky and ocean—return to that truth Final Messages: Stop looking outside of yourself Let go of healing and fixing—it’s all about being Surrender control and trust your soul’s orchestration You are meant to walk this path—it’s perfect as it is 💬 Quotes from the Episode “None of my energy healing tools worked. I had to just be—and that was the most challenging part.” – Monte Blu “Your twin flame is a mirror. Trying to fix them is actually rejecting yourself.” – Elle Hari “Being psychic didn’t help me. It actually made it harder to surrender.” – Monte Blu “Every spiritual system is a tool of fear-based energy unless it brings you back to yourself.” – Elle Hari “You’re not broken. There’s nothing to heal. You’re just being shown what was hidden.” – Elle Hari “As soon as I focused on helping or fixing my twin flame, he disappeared.” – Monte Blu “We are all iridescent light beings—but we forget and look for magic outside of us.” – Monte Blu “This isn’t about doing more. It’s about unlearning, being still, and letting your soul lead.” – Elle Hari   About Monte Blu I’m Monte Blu, a certified Be With Your Twin Flame® Ascension Coach and psychic. I guide psychics, empaths, and energy-sensitive souls who are awakening on the Twin Flame® path—and feeling disoriented by it. Before this work, I relied on my psychic abilities. I built a belief system around the energy I’d read for years. Clients trusted my insights, and I trusted what I “knew.” But as my Twin Flame® journey unfolded, that certainty started to crumble. I felt confused—how could what always worked suddenly feel off? When I started the teachings, part of me resiste

In this episode of the Twin Flame Truth Podcast, Elle Hari welcomes Alissa Dow, Alissa Dow is a certified Be With Your Twin Flame️® coach, to discuss the unique challenges faced by high-functioning individuals—particularly business professionals, caretakers, and parents—on the twin flame journey. Alissa shares her deeply personal story of initially resisting the journey due to skepticism and fear, only to find clarity and healing through Elle’s coaching program. Together, Elle and Alissa dive into how the analytical mind, societal roles, and shame can deeply affect individuals navigating this profound soul-level experience. They also explore how the twin flame journey disrupts traditional goal-setting, logic, and cause-effect thinking, urging listeners to trust in their soul’s guidance and let go of resistance.   NOTES:  Guest Introduction: Alissa Dow, certified coach and graduate of Elle Hari’s coaching program. Who Alissa Works With: Business professionals, parents, caretakers—especially high achievers and type-A personalities resistant to spiritual concepts. Alissa’s Twin Flame Journey: Initially skeptical and resistant Tried psychics and tarot before finding Elle’s program Experienced immediate relief and reconnection after enrolling Common Issues Faced by Her Clients: Shame, isolation, confusion, inability to function in daily life Struggles with parenting, work, and feeling “crazy” or broken Impact on Type-A and Analytical Individuals: Journey disrupts logic, organization, productivity, and goal-setting Creates internal chaos that contradicts their identity and coping mechanisms Role of Shame and Guilt: Deep shame around not performing, being “off track,” or failing others Guilt from not being present for children, employees, or loved ones Shift from Mind to Soul: Journey teaches surrendering control and trusting the soul “Being” vs. “doing”—embracing magnetism and intuition Ascension negates third-dimensional laws like cause and effect Final Messages: Let go of shame—it keeps you stuck This journey is your soul’s calling, and you are meant to walk it You are not alone—support and guidance are available 💬 Quotes from the Episode “I felt like my world had just suddenly blown up... I didn’t want to admit I was on a twin flame journey.” – Alissa Dow “The shame is the lowest vibration of fear-based energy—and that’s exactly what this journey activates.” – Elle Hari “I became a coach because I knew there were people feeling as lost and miserable as I once did—and they need someone who gets it.” – Alissa Dow “You’re used to thinking your way through everything. But this journey—your mind just can’t figure it out.” – Alissa Dow “This is not a typical relationship. This is a spiritual journey unlike anything else.” – Elle Hari “You can’t goal-set your way through this. You can’t organize it. It’s the journey of the soul—and your soul is infinite.” – Elle Hari “People think they’re having a breakdown. But really, they’re having a breakthrough—their soul is awakening.” – Alissa Dow “Every time I’ve surrendered and taken that leap of blind faith, I’ve been blown away by what the soul delivers.” – Alissa Dow “Don’t let shame keep you stuck. You are on this journey for a reason, and it will bring you home to yourself.” – Alissa Dow   About Alissa Dow Alissa Dow is a certified Twin Flame® coach who specializes in helping high-achieving, career-driven individuals — including over-thinkers, go-getters, parents, and caregivers — navigate the emotional challenges of the Twin Flame journey. With a deep understanding of how overwhelming the process can be, especially for those juggling personal goals and family or professional responsibilities, Alissa offers personalized, truth-based coaching that helps clients shift from confusion and burnout to clarity, balance, and empowerment. Her approach focuses on restoring energy alignment and guiding clients toward magnetic re

In this season, follow Magnetize Your Twin Flame®️student Joe as he works with Elle to navigate his journey by learning the truth about twin flames and implementing the process taught in the coaching program to align and balance his energy and ultimately magnetize his twin flame. Joe's twin flame is coming in more often and he is noticing a shift in their energy and how they are interacting with him.  Elle reminds Joe that his twin flame is responding to his energy and helps him understand how he can use the interactions with his twin flame as a mirror to see where his energy is, identify back door feeds and distinguish where he still needs to balance more.   Quotes: "The fear-based energy can be very deeply seated.  In other words, you don't feel anything...you don't have any judgment surface level, but it is down there deep which could be the reason why she is feeling the fear-based energy here."  (15:05 - 15:26) "This is how the whole mirroring thing with twin flames works.  That's a myth, you know, they're not doing exactly what you're doing and mirroring you like that.  It's whatever your fears are, even if you aren't even aware of them, they're going to keep showing up until you become aware of them.  So your twin flame is going to keep showing you whatever you have fear-based energy of."  (19:44 - 20:08) "The thing with the energy too, the focus, the attention has to remain on you...your fear-based energy will constantly pull it back and put the focus back on the twin flame but you can't have that.  It has to remain on you otherwise where your attention goes, so does the twin flame's.  So if you want the twin flame's attention on you, you keep yours on you."  (30:15 - 30:42)   If you're ready to take charge of your twin flame journey and receive the same guidance and support as Joe, schedule a call with one of our coaches and start becoming irresistible to your twin flame today.  https://bewithyourtwinflame.org/clarity-consultation/

In this season, follow Magnetize Your Twin Flame®️student Joe as he works with Elle to navigate his journey by learning the truth about twin flames and implementing the process taught in the coaching program to align and balance his energy and ultimately magnetize his twin flame. In this episode, Elle teaches Joe the importance of being present with your twin flame and how "planning" when and how he responds to his twin flame and "scheduling" time together is fear-based.   Quotes: "It's not the words that matter, like how you text her or what you say at all.  If you're focused on that then that's total fear-based energy.  The only thing that matters is the energy."  9:56 - 10:06 "The more and more you balance and interact with your twin flame, the less words you're going to need and the more comfortable you'll both feel just being in the same energetic space that you share with no one and nothing else."  13:35 - 13:50 "Planning comes from your mind, and your mind is fear-based energy.  That's why we don't want to plan, we don't want to go over and our what we're going to say and make sure it sounds funny or flirty because again, trying to be funny or flirty is trying to get a reaction out of your twin flame and that's trying to "get".  In the moment...as much as you can be in the moment is exactly how you want to relate with your twin flame."  19:17-19:48 If you're ready to take charge of your twin flame journey and receive the same guidance and support as Joe, schedule a call with one of our coaches and start becoming irresistible to your twin flame today.  https://bewithyourtwinflame.org/clarity-consultation/  

In this season, follow Magnetize Your Twin Flame®️student Joe as he works with Elle to navigate his journey by learning the truth about twin flames and implementing the process taught in the coaching program to align and balance his energy and ultimately magnetize his twin flame. Now that Joe is interacting with his twin flame more often, he has some new questions about his twin flame "relationship" such as working out logistics (since they are not in the same state), dating other people, and timing.   Elle explains how and why these questions are fear-based and can create backdoor feeds and teaches him how to dig deeper to see where his fear-based energy is "hiding" within his intention so he can identify and balance it more effectively. Quotes: "The soul always works it out.  Nothing physical can keep your soul away from each other.  The only thing that can do that is your own push-pull energy of the soul, that push-pull part of the soul, the fear-based energy of the soul.   That's the only thing as long as you're not balanced.  So there's no physical thing that can possibly be stronger than your soul."  (8:56 - 9:19) "You always have to ask deeper what your real intentions and motives are for doing something with this journey."  (20:26 - 20:32) "It's not about a relationship with your twin flame.  With other people, it's a relationship.  With your twin flame it's a reunion of your soul.  It's that sacred of a bond, so it's a completely different ball game.  No other relationships you have with anything or anyone else has anything to do with your twin flame journey."  (24:09 - 24:25)   If you're ready to take charge of your twin flame journey and receive the same guidance and support as Joe, schedule a call with one of our coaches and start becoming irresistible to your twin flame today.  https://bewithyourtwinflame.org/clarity-consultation/

In this season, follow Magnetize Your Twin Flame®️student, Joe, as he works with Elle to navigate his journey by learning the truth about twin flames and implementing the process taught in the coaching program to align and balance his energy and ultimately magnetize his twin flame. Since Joe has magnetized his twin flame, he is experiencing brand new ways his fear-based energy is trying to be in control of his twin flame situation.  Elle helps him recognize the sneaky ways his energy is trying to feed and offers guidance in how to remain in the process day to day including identifying his fear-based energy when making decisions, how the interactions with his twin flame must change after magnetization and the importance of honesty and integrity in intention.   Quotes: "Questioning or worrying about how you're supposed to interact with her - any confusion around that is your fear-based energy.  Fear is always confusion and doubt and uncertainty because those are synonymous with fear."  (4:44 - 4:58)   "There's no finiteness in love.  Love is completely infinite. Your soul is completely infinite, so as soon as we take something from infinite and try to make it finite, and organize it and label it and try to put timing on it or anything else in the physical world, that takes it from love to fear.  And remember, nothing can happen with your twin flame physically from the space of fear." (14:56 - 15:18)    "Your fear-based energy controls your mind.  It needs things to be in order.  It only exists in the physical world where everything is finite, where everything is temporary, where everything needs to be in chronological order because the third dimension of physicality and fear-based energy is linear.  But in the fifth dimension of love and the soul, there's no lines, it's not linear, it's everything everywhere all at once.  It's chaos.  The soul is chaos but the mind doesn't like to think of chaos because it can't even conceive of chaos.  That's why it has to think of things as very finite and very orderly and categorize them because it makes the fear-based energy feel like it has more control that way.  But really it's a false sense of control because your soul is orchestrating everything always."  (17:22 - 18:08)  If you're ready to take charge of your twin flame journey and receive the same guidance and support as Joe, schedule a call with one of our coaches and start becoming irresistible to your twin flame today.  https://bewithyourtwinflame.org/clarity-consultation/  

In this season, follow Magnetize Your Twin Flame®️student, Joe, as he works with Elle to navigate his journey by learning the truth about twin flames and implementing the process taught in the coaching program to align and balance his energy and ultimately magnetize his twin flame. After implementing the techniques he learned in the process for just a few weeks, Joe was able to balance enough that he magnetized his twin flame.  As is the case with everyone who first magnetizes their twin flame, Joe's energy began to feed from this interaction so Elle shares how to recognize his sneaky and subtle fear-based energy more clearly and guides him through what to do to help him not only maintain his balance by stopping the feed, but also how to balance even more to prevent the energy from repelling again and pushing his twin flame away.  Quotes:"Why she came in and why she came in a different way is because you've balanced enough of your fear-based push energy to clear the energetic field which enabled your soul to bring the two physical bodies, yours and hers, together physically.  And even though you're not physically in the same room, by physically we mean she comes into your physical somehow, right?  Which she did, she called."  (3:35 - 3:50)   "Whatever the twin flame says, thinks, feels, or does is totally irrelevant.  The only thing we want to focus on is just, "Oh, I balanced enough that here she is, she came in."  And that's all you need to know.  So you don't ever have to talk to her, you don't have to message with her...I'm not saying that you can't, but I'm just saying you want to get to the point where it's not about that, it's not about the details so to speak."  (12:15 - 12:39) "It's different now relating with her.  It has to be or else the fear-based energy comes back in.  Like if you want to make it like a "normal" relationship like you'd have with anybody else or you had with her previously, the push-pull, fear-based energy will just kick back in."  (21:51 - 22:05)   If you're ready to take charge of your twin flame journey and receive the same guidance and support as Joe, schedule a call with one of our coaches and start becoming irresistible to your twin flame today.    LINK https://bewithyourtwinflame.org/clarity-consultation/  

In this season, follow Magnetize Your Twin Flame®️student, Joe, as he works with Elle to navigate his journey by learning the truth about twin flames and implementing the process taught in the coaching program to align and balance his energy and ultimately magnetize his twin flame. In this episode Joe learns more about his fear-based energy.  Elle teaches how this sneaky energy works and helps him understand the effect it has on how he feels, his thoughts, his beliefs, and how it feeds, and offers guidance in how to effectively implement what he's learned in the process so far to identify his fear-based energy and stop it from feeding. Quotes: "Everything that we do, we say, we think, we feel is all fear-based energy.  And that energy is the push energy that's pushing toward her, and she is your pull and she pulls away at the same time.  So, every time we indulge or placate or give in to that energy, that urge, that feeds the energy so it builds up stronger, so it pushes out even stronger.  So, it doesn't matter whether you actually reach out to her, or you talk to her, it's all about within you if you're feeding that energy.  So, even just to check to see if she's online feeds that energy and builds it up even stronger to push out towards her and she feels it no matter what, whether she's right next to you, whether she's talking to you, whether she's half way around the world, she feels it, it's her energy too."  (6:49-7:39) "When you stop doing those things, and when you start really seeing them, and you start shrinking your fear-based energy, what it's going to do is that it's going to try to find sneaky ways that are more subtle that it's connecting things to her.  We call these backdoor feeds."  (14:16-14:32) "The more that you move through this process and the more you, we call it "balance" your fear-based energy, which makes it smaller, the sneakier it is because it's not so big in your face.  You're not really in it anymore, you're seeing it from the observer perspective and it just gets smaller and smaller.  But then it gets sneakier and sneakier, so that's why coaching is so important on this journey."  (19:55 - 20:18) "So, right now you're push energy, she's pull energy of your soul, of your one soul which is an energetic field.  Your push particles in the energetic field, she's pull.  So, that's polarized.  That's what we call polarized like a battery, there's a plus like a positive and negative.  What we're doing is every time that you "balance" we call it, but every time that you become the observer of your fear-based energy, and you'll learn more about doing that in the next coming up modules, the more you do that, that stops the push because it neutralizes it.  The neutrality of that is love.  It takes your fear-based energy and it transmutes it into love energy, and that's forever."  (32:36 - 33:22)   If you're ready to take charge of your twin flame journey and receive the same guidance and support as Joe, schedule a call with one of our coaches and start becoming irresistible to your twin flame today: https://bewithyourtwinflame.org/clarity-consultation/

In this season, follow Magnetize Your Twin Flame®️student, Joe, as he works with Elle to navigate his journey by learning the truth about twin flames and implementing the process taught in the coaching program to align and balance his energy and ultimately magnetize his twin flame. In this episode Joe gains more clarity about what's really going on with his twin flame situation such as the energetic push-pull dynamic and how that's playing out for him, why he's obsessed, why she pulls away, and how implementing this process will improve his twin flame relating experience as well as every other area of his life. Quotes- "So, you and your twin flame share the same soul; it's the same energy.  And so, in the physical world the soul has to have polarized dual energies.  So it has to have a push energy and a pull energy.  And that's why it has two different bodies, the two twin flames.  One is the soul's push energy, one is the pull energy."  (15:43 - 16:03)- "The reason why it's pulling away is because energetically the pull twin flame feels suffocated almost from the energy of the push twin flame.  Even physically, the push twin flame can be blocking them or trying to move away from them but the energy is what matters."  (18:51 - 19:14)- "We remove the push and pull, it neutralizes it.  So neutralizing the shared energetic field enables the soul to bring the two physical bodies together again."  (23:49 - 24:00) Links:If you're ready to take charge of your twin flame journey and receive the same guidance and support as Joe, schedule a call with one of our coaches and start becoming irresistible to your twin flame today: https://bewithyourtwinflame.org/clarity-consultation/  

Have you noticed that since your twin flame left, your money seems to have vanished as well?  Have you been struggling to get back on track but no matter what you try, nothing seems to work - even if it worked before? The truth is, there is a direct connection between your twin flame journey and your finances.  In this episode, Elle shares the divine connection between your twin flame journey and infinite abundance and what to do to take advantage of this connection to experience infinite abundance in your life.   Quotes: "The twin flame journey is so significant and impactful in every area of your life not just regarding your twin flame. " (1:53 - 2:03)   "Everything in the physical world including your thoughts, your beliefs, your feelings, your words, numbers,...they're all limitation."  (27:28 - 27:36)   "Every time you take your power back, you awaken more and more and you lift the limitations to break the patterns, and you stop dreaming and you remember your true self which is limitless, unadulterated joy and infinite abundance, and of course, love." (30:41 - 30:59)   "As long as you believe in the dream, the fantasy, the illusion, and any of this is real, you can't break through the cobwebs and continue to awaken to experience infinite abundance." (45:16 - 45:23) Links: Twin Flame Path to Riches Learning Portal https://elle-hari.mykajabi.com/offers/Z3F2L8Ep Elle's Bookstore:   https://store.ellehariauthor.com/ To discover all of the other ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame Journey, please visit: https://linktr.ee/ellehari   If you're ready to leverage the pain, confusion and obsession of the journey to have a loving relationship with your twin flame and elevate every aspect of your life, speak with one of our clarity coaches here:  https://bewithyourtwinflame.org/clarity-consultation/  

Are you spending more time alone than usual, lately? Do you find yourself lonely without other people to provide you with love, peace and comfort? This season of isolation is the perfect opportunity to learn to love yourself completely and wholly, to enjoy your own company, without the need of approval from anyone else. The more you love yourself, the more you love your Twin Flame and thus draw them to you like a magnet.    Too many people are afraid to be alone. They forget that they are enough just as they are. No matter how many people you surround yourself with–including the physical form of your Twin Flame–no one can truly make us feel anything, good or bad. We are in charge of our own feelings and shouldn’t give anyone the power to define or fulfill us.    As Elle says on this latest episode, it’s time we all own our own shit. This is part of loving ourselves, and loving ourselves brings us closer to our Twin Flames.   Quotes  “Right now, you’re being given a gift from the Universe and your soul is being given a gift, and it’s a gift of solitude.”(4:02 | Elle) “Well, think about it: when you love someone, or you think you love someone, what do you want to do? You want to spend time with them. You love being with them. They’re enough. Just being with them is enough. That’s where you need to get with yourself. You feel whole and complete and have the best time ever just being with you.” (4:49 | Elle)  “That’s a very real fear for most people. Most people cannot be alone. And it’s because they don’t truly love themselves. They’re looking outside themselves to other people, constantly, for comfort, to feel good, for happiness.” (6:08 | Elle) “Everyone–everyone–is responsible for their own feelings, and it’s about time we all take responsibility for that and accountability and own our own shit. Because that’s loving yourself.” (7:33 | Elle)  “Because ultimately, what’s that doing? It’s giving away your power. That’s saying someone else has the power over you to cause you to feel comfortable, or happy, or angry, or pissed off. Why would you give your power away like that?” (7:59 | Elle)   Links For information about the Be With Your Twin Flame® Coaching Certification and Business Academy or if you're ready to leverage the pain, confusion and obsession of the journey to have a loving relationship with your twin flame and elevate every aspect of your life, speak with one of our Clarity Coaches here: https://go.oncehub.com/ClarityConsultationCall   To discover all of the other ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please visit:  https://linktr.ee/ellehari   Shop Elle Hari’s latest books here:  https://store.ellehariauthor.com/   Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

Have you found yourself isolated with more time to think and less time to spend with people? As a result, are your thoughts becoming more obsessive? If you are looking to stop those thoughts, then think again, Elle says. What you want to change is the energy behind the thoughts and the stories that your fear-based energy attaches to them. Thoughts themselves are neutral, and can mean something different to you from one day to the next depending on the meaning you assign to it.    This is easier said than done, as some of our thoughts are deeply embedded in our subconscious and are attached to triggers, behavioral patterns, and stories. The stories you attach to the physical embodiment of your Twin Flame–examples of which Elle shares here, including one from her own life–will keep you apart from each other.    To clear up the fog that obsessive thoughts create between the two of you, you must practice the opposite of that fog, which is  truth and love, to make things clear. Join Elle in today’s episode to learn how to do it!   Quotes  “You’re not supposed to stop your thoughts. It’s not about stopping something because you don’t want to resist it. What you resist, persists. What it’s really about is sitting there and being aware of your thoughts.” (4:16 | Elle)  “If you ever take an actual ball of snow, a little tiny one in your hand, and you roll it around  on the ground, it gets bigger and bigger, it just collects more snow. That’s how your fear-based energy works. So, it starts with a factual thought that may appear to be the case, but then it adds a story to it that you don’t know is real, because it’s made up by your fear-based energy.” (7:14 | Elle)  “I know you’ve felt this way because I’ve felt this way: when you’re in the throes of your Twin Flame journey like this, it almost feels like you’re in a fog.” (9:21 | Elle) “Fear is cloudy; fear’s not clear. Truth is clear. Truth and love. They’re clear.” (9:42 | Elle) “So as you do all those things, and as you lift the cloud for yourself, you’re lifting it for your Twin Flame as well.” (11:47 | Elle)   Links For information about the Be With Your Twin Flame® Coaching Certification and Business Academy or if you're ready to leverage the pain, confusion and obsession of the journey to have a loving relationship with your twin flame and elevate every aspect of your life, speak with one of our Clarity Coaches here: https://go.oncehub.com/ClarityConsultationCall   To discover all of the other ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please visit:  https://linktr.ee/ellehari   Shop Elle Hari’s latest books here:  https://store.ellehariauthor.com/   Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

Do you find yourself having an abundance of fearful thoughts lately? Are you dwelling on the negative more than usual? In today’s world, it’s almost impossible not to be bombarded by stressful imagery and messaging. Since they know it’s all very addictive, the media makes sure to keep it in steady rotation.    Elle is here to help, guiding you with simple exercises and suggestions to keep you centered and present, so that the fear-based energy in your mind doesn’t stand between you and your Twin Flame.  She’ll show you what to do with the thoughts that come up in your mind, and explain why it’s important not to dwell either in the present or the past. No one outside of you can create your feelings. The antidote to fear and fear-based thinking is to trust and love yourself completely.    As Elle explains in this episode, sometimes being out of your mind is a good thing. She reveals the one thing you must do for any of the other steps to work and recommends one of the best books on the topic of living presently.    Quotes  “As anyone on the Twin Flame journey knows, fear-based energy is highly addictive, and like all energy, its natural inclination is to grow and expand. That’s what it’s meant to do.” (4:39 | Elle)  “The media companies and the news outlets, they’ve always known that fear is addictive and that’s why they prey on it.” (5:50 | Elle) “You want to temper yourself from going forward or backward, and just really try to be present for a while. Fear cannot live in the present.” (11:22 | Elle) “Let the thoughts just float on by. It’s OK. They don’t mean anything; they aren’t real. They’re created in your mind which is run and controlled by what?---Your fear-based energy.” (13:04 | Elle)  “Trust and believe that your soul is orchestrating everything in your life. Because it is, and it’s doing it for a reason, even if your mind doesn’t know what that reason is.” (16:07 | Elle)   Links For information about the Be With Your Twin Flame® Coaching Certification and Business Academy or if you're ready to leverage the pain, confusion and obsession of the journey to have a loving relationship with your twin flame and elevate every aspect of your life, speak with one of our Clarity Coaches here: https://go.oncehub.com/ClarityConsultationCall   To discover all of the other ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please visit:  https://linktr.ee/ellehari   Shop Elle Hari’s latest books here:  https://store.ellehariauthor.com/   Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

Are you using the Law of Attraction to manifest what you want? Is it working the way you want it to?   In this episode, Elle explains why manifesting techniques can hinder you, and will never be as powerful, as letting everything you desire come to you freely by aligning with your soul. Your mind is fear-based and limited to your physical experience, she says. It cannot even conceive of what your soul can bring to you.   Popular manifesting techniques require that you stay in your head, focused on the past and worried about the future. Also, people usually do it when they are in a panicked or worried state. The soul energy, which is infinitely more powerful than the mind, requires that we stay in the present, recognizing that all things are possible.    Free will is not what we think it is, Elle explains. Join the conversation to hear her explain how to reconcile the Twin Flame Journey with intentional manifesting, and the best method to use to get what you most desire.    Quotes  “It’s interesting and yet backwards but people tend to want to manifest from a place of fear, when they realize that things are lacking or missing, or they feel a sense of things not being the way they want them, which is all fear-based thought. That’s when they actually look to intentionally manifest, usually. Of course, that’s the time when you really shouldn’t and that’s not going to work.” (3:43 | Elle) “Any sense of control it does feel is totally a false sense of control. It’s never in control. Think about it: your mind only exists for the whole of your lifetime, it’s not eternal, you don’t take it with you. It’s part of your physical reality and your physical existence. It’s not your soul, your soul is eternal.” (5:56 | Elle) “Your soul is a direct spark of source energy. Source energy–whatever you want to call it, the Universe, Source, God, Goddess, whatever— it is the ultimate creator. It created everything, everything that exists in the entire history of everything, everything in the entire cosmos. It invented the cosmos. It invented everything, it created everything. And so, your soul is a direct spark from that energy, so therefore, you are an ultimate creator.”  (6:39 | Elle)  “Your mind can’t even dream as big as what your soul can bring you.” (8:18 | Elle)  “‘Whatever thoughts are going through our heads, whatever we’d like to see show up in our physical world, if we’re worried about it, if we’re concerned about it, if we’re so focused on it that we can’t even find real, true peace about it in our life at all, unless we get it because it’s so in our head, that’s being in our mind and that’s being fear-based. And then if we try to intentionally create or manifest things from that space, with that energy, that’s just not being in alignment with our soul.” (16:35 | Elle)   Links For information about the Be With Your Twin Flame® Coaching Certification and Business Academy or if you're ready to leverage the pain, confusion and obsession of the journey to have a loving relationship with your twin flame and elevate every aspect of your life, speak with one of our Clarity Coaches here: https://go.oncehub.com/ClarityConsultationCall   To discover all of the other ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please visit:  https://linktr.ee/ellehari   Shop Elle Hari’s latest books here:  https://store.ellehariauthor.com/   Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

Do you know what you truly want in life? Are you on a journey toward what you’ve been conditioned to believe is success? Be prepared to be thrown right off course, Elle warns. As you move closer into alignment with your soul–your true self–you move closer to your true life’s purpose and your true desires. These are often different from those that you form in your mind, where your ego–and fear based energy–are stored. And it’s not just your career that will change–you’ll find yourself receiving your true desires in all aspects of your life.    And they will come with ease–because the soul will magnetize it all toward you. This is why it is so important to trust your soul-your true self. The mind and the ego will create resistance, and skepticism is normal. But to truly love yourself–your true self–means trusting yourself completely.    Elle’s own life and the life of her students have changed drastically as a result of their Twin Flame journey. She is one of many successful entrepreneurs  who contributed their story to the internationally bestselling book “Yes, I Can.” In this episode, she explains why this process holds the key to success in every area of your life.    Quotes  “The definition of success, what you might think you want or desire in life, what you might think is your definition of success—and always has been—it may very well change as you move along this journey.”(4:23 | Elle)  “I’m not saying everything you want now is not aligned with truth or is all fear-based—if you want world peace, that’s perfect and great–it’s different than that. You can desire and want the same things, but your “come-from” about it, your intention for it, is different.” (6:57 | Elle) “When you’re in alignment with your true self and your soul, your soul magnetizes in all your true desires to you, without your really having to do anything. You don’t have to plan in your mind how to get it. You don’t have to really go out and do anything. And when you do things, and you do take actions, they don’t feel like they’re actions, they don’t feel like they’re work. You don’t even have to think about how to do it, the answer just comes to you. It really is amazing and miraculous and I see it all the time with my students, and I am living proof of exactly why and how that happens.” (8:09 | Elle)  “That’s really the number one lesson of this journey, is to trust and believe in yourself, and by ‘self,’ of course, I mean ‘soul.’ (12:24 | Elle)   Links For information about the Be With Your Twin Flame® Coaching Certification and Business Academy or if you're ready to leverage the pain, confusion and obsession of the journey to have a loving relationship with your twin flame and elevate every aspect of your life, speak with one of our Clarity Coaches here: https://go.oncehub.com/ClarityConsultationCall   To discover all of the other ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please visit:  https://linktr.ee/ellehari   Shop Elle Hari’s latest books here:  https://store.ellehariauthor.com/   Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

Has your entire life been disrupted and overturned? After years of near-perfect success and smooth sailing, are your health, finances, career or other major areas of life suddenly falling apart? This is not only common, but, as Elle explains, quite a necessary part of the Twin Flame journey.    It’s an awakening, an alarm. Your soul is trying to get your attention. Physical pain and exhaustion are often signs of fear being alchemized into love. The more you align with your true self, the closer you come to your true desires and your true soul’s purpose. And this means your definition of success may not look the same as it used to.    Take heart knowing that you can never go backwards. The Twin Flame journey moves in only one direction: forward. Quotes  “Your soul is trying to get your attention. You cannot ignore this journey. And if you’re not going to pay attention to the more subtle signs that are going on–your soul just knows you, it is you—if it doesn’t wreak havoc or change or affect one or all areas of your life, then you might not notice. This really is an awakening. It has to wake you up.” (5:12 | Elle) “The point of pain–even physical pain–pain is a symptom. It’s not the actual cause or the problem. Pain is there as an alarm, an alert, an awakening to tell you, ‘Hey! This is going on. This hurts. So pay attention.’ It gets your attention and leads you to find out and discover what actually is the underlying cause of the pain.”  (5:43 | Elle) “In the realm of the soul, what you really feel the need to do is create. Your soul is a creative energy, we are creative beings.” (8:51 | Elle) “When you are in alignment with your soul and what your true soul’s purpose is, you’re in alignment with the universe. And that is the whole energetic space of pure potentiality, which includes everything that you ever truly desire.” (9:24 | Elle) “Change in and of itself is very painful for people because our fear based energy hates change. It feels like it’s losing control.” (10:48 | Elle)   Links For information about the Be With Your Twin Flame® Coaching Certification and Business Academy or if you're ready to leverage the pain, confusion and obsession of the journey to have a loving relationship with your twin flame and elevate every aspect of your life, speak with one of our Clarity Coaches here: https://go.oncehub.com/ClarityConsultationCall   To discover all of the other ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please visit:  https://linktr.ee/ellehari   Shop Elle Hari’s latest books here:  https://store.ellehariauthor.com/   Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

Are you at the mercy of your limiting beliefs? Do you place people and things into boxes, therefore limiting their possibilities? To live in the 3D world is to be surrounded by limitations. Our fear-based minds, desiring a false sense of control tend to name, label, and categorize things and people, declaring what they are and are not, and therefore boxing them in. Your soul, however, is limitless. In the soul realm everything is possible and there are no opposites of good or bad, right or wrong, is and is not.   Applying labels to yourself and others–even positive ones like “empath,”-- is harmful. It suggests that you are only empathetic and nothing else. Labeling your Twin Flame a narcissist suggests that they have only narcissistic traits, while you have none. In fact, we all have a combination of every trait living within us at any given time.    Whenever you find yourself labeling something or someone–including yourself–take a moment to pause. Remember, everything is possible and right in the realm of the soul.    Quotes  • “A limitation is anything that imposes some type of restriction, disbelief, impossibility, boxing, categorizing, or label. So basically, most things in the physical world are limiting–that includes words and definitions.” (3:16 | Elle) • “How can we be in alignment with our soul which knows no limits, which is limitless – if we are living with limitation, if we are believing in limitation?” (4:25 | Elle) • “We look at empirical data, scientific evidence, things of that nature to see, to validate if something is possible, or if something is right or wrong. But in the realm of the soul everything is right–everything is. It’s not right or wrong, it just is. In the realm of the soul where there are no limits, no physical data, anything and everything is possible.” (6:42 | Elle) • “If you say you’re an empath, for example, that means you’re saying that you’re never not empathetic. And remember, to say you’re always one thing and never another thing is a limitation.” (9:24 | Elle) • “There are no opposites in the realm of the soul. You just are, and you are everything. Everything, anything, all at once.” (9:57 | Elle)    Links For information about the Be With Your Twin Flame® Coaching Certification and Business Academy or if you're ready to leverage the pain, confusion and obsession of the journey to have a loving relationship with your twin flame and elevate every aspect of your life, speak with one of our Clarity Coaches here: https://go.oncehub.com/ClarityConsultationCall   To discover all of the other ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please visit:  https://linktr.ee/ellehari   Shop Elle Hari’s latest books here:  https://store.ellehariauthor.com/   Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

Do you feel the need to do something to accelerate your Twin Flame journey? Do you feel anxious when you compare your journey to other people’s? This need to “do” is fear-based “push” energy, and has the opposite effect–it will actually impede your progress toward your Twin Flame. It is when you let go and stay present and put complete trust in your soul that you allow it to deliver you in perfect time to exactly where you need to be.    Despite what the mind will try to tell you, there is no prize to be won. You win by letting go, trusting your soul, as it is the only thing that is truly in control. Time is an illusion. The awareness of it comes from your fear-based mind. The soul–which is truly in control of everything– has no sense of beginning or end. When you find yourself frustrated, remember that everyone’s journey is different.    Quotes  • “Remember: when we feed our fear-based “push” energy, by believing it, by enacting what it wants us to do, then it just grows bigger, it pushes out farther and causes our Twin Flame to pull away farther.” (5:00 | Elle) • “Your soul is guiding you, perfectly. And your soul will bring you to exactly what you truly desire, your exact destiny, in divine perfect timing. All it takes is trust and belief in your soul.” (5:27 | Elle)  • “It has no sense of time. Every lifetime to your soul is just a second, an instant, a moment, because it just goes on forever. There is no end, there is no destination, there is no finality. (8:20 | Elle)  • “What is fast for one person is not as fast as for another. There’s no sense in comparing anything either, with anyone else. That’s also your fear-based “push” energy, wanting to make this a competition, because it looks at this as there’s a prize to win, being with your Twin Flame physically. But it can’t be like that.” (11:31 | Elle)  • “That’s the Twin Flame paradox: you have to really let go of the need or the want or the yearning or the longing, the physical desire of being with your Twin Flame in order to then be with them.” (13:37 | Elle)   Links For information about the Be With Your Twin Flame® Coaching Certification and Business Academy or if you're ready to leverage the pain, confusion and obsession of the journey to have a loving relationship with your twin flame and elevate every aspect of your life, speak with one of our Clarity Coaches here: https://go.oncehub.com/ClarityConsultationCall   To discover all of the other ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please visit:  https://linktr.ee/ellehari   Shop Elle Hari’s latest books here:  https://store.ellehariauthor.com/   Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

Are you trying to get the attention of your Twin Flame by looking them up or orchestrating a run-in with them? Or, by contrast, are you actively trying to avoid or ignore them? If you answered yes to either, you are in your “push” energy. And when you “push”, your Twin Flame inevitably “pulls”. This is a mutually manipulative dance in which you both vie for control.    Of course, any sense of control is false and fear-based. The mind, which is only part of your earth-based experience, is never actually in control. Control belongs to your soul, which is eternal through all lifetimes and everything in between.    The goal of the push/pull phenomenon is to learn to let go of this need to control, and to let your soul take over. When you do, miracles tend to happen.   Quotes  • “There’s a belief that knowledge is power. You Google things, you have a quest and a search and a curiosity for information about things. You want to know things. That’s all fine and perfect–as a human being with a mind, that’s what the mind does, but why does the mind do that? Because it feels like the more it knows, the more in control it is.” (5:31 | Elle) • "What the false sense of control gives the fear-based push/pull energy is a false sense of security. Your mind and your fear-based push/pull energy are never in control. Your soul is controlling everything, it’s orchestrating everything in your life, in every lifetime, between every lifetime. Your mind isn’t even there in between your lifetimes. You only get a mind when you come into physical form.” (6:35 | Elle)  • “The “push” energy feels like it’s in control by trying to get reactions and responses from the “pull” energy. The “pull” energy feels like it’s in control by focusing anywhere else but on the “push” energy.” (10:57 | Elle)  • “They’re both very manipulative. It’s a very manipulative game.” (11:23 | Elle) “You can’t let go of your Twin Flame. What you want to let go of is, pretty much, the wheel. Sit back and let go of trying to control your journey.” (14:11 | Elle)   Links For information about the Be With Your Twin Flame® Coaching Certification and Business Academy or if you're ready to leverage the pain, confusion and obsession of the journey to have a loving relationship with your twin flame and elevate every aspect of your life, speak with one of our Clarity Coaches here: https://go.oncehub.com/ClarityConsultationCall   To discover all of the other ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please visit:  https://linktr.ee/ellehari   Shop Elle Hari’s latest books here:  https://store.ellehariauthor.com/   Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm