
What if seduction wasn’t about performance, but about power, play and presence?
In this episode I’m joined by Eleanor Hadley, a Certified Sex Educator, speaker and award-winning coach, to uncover the truth about seduction. It’s not limited to lap dancing in seedy bars — it’s really about magnetism, radiance, and turning yourself on!
This conversation is refreshing, enlightening, and will help you to appreciate that seduction is an art — and one that begins with you.
Listen in to hear us talk about:
✨ Why seduction begins with you (and how to embody it, not perform it)
✨ The difference between embodied vs. performative pleasure
✨ How sensual movement, selfies and mirror work can ignite confidence and radiance
✨ The role of tease, anticipation, and magnetism in midlife intimacy
✨ Releasing judgment and rewriting the rules of what’s “allowed” as we age
Whether you’re single, partnered, or simply curious, this conversation will open the door to playful practices that help you feel radiant, magnetic, and deliciously turned on in midlife and beyond.
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