Have you ever asked yourself whether you are truly happy? When Ebun Ali decided to take radical responsibility for how her life felt, it opened up a whole new world of possibilities.       Ebun Ali, also known as "The Heartstylist," is a confidence coach, curator, and connector with a passion for empowering individuals. Through honest reflection, in the past year alone Ebun has transformed her health, shifted her approach to entrepreneurship and supercharged her confidence - gaining the attention of thousands online as she documents the journey.       But as we learn in this episode, though the outward results of doing the work are beautiful, the inner work is the real flex. Ebun shares the power of paying attention to your thoughts and being curious about you. Her holistic glow up journey is proof that if you don't like how your life feels, you can take back control, but it starts in the mind. We also discuss why it's important for black women to romanticise their lives, and how having multiple streams of accountability changes everything.     Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5XMKwhCWR7UfXFwX1D4Ewu  Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/trusting-the-process/id1377232699 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCFwDGYfifeEBEbcJyTHUObA    Follow Trusting The Process: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/trustingtheprocesspod  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@trustingtheprocesspod     Follow Debra: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/debrachosen  Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@debra_chosen      Subscribe to Trusting The Process Mailing List: https://ttpnewsletter.myflodesk.com/join      Get in touch for business or partnership inquiries Email: info@trustingtheprocess.co.uk