You may know that bonobos are closely related to chimps—and humans. You may know that they are considered “the sexy ape’ because they use sex to dispel tension and create social bonds. But did you know that our closest non-human primate relatives are a female dominant species? And that they especially love girl-on-girl action? We know all this and more thanks to Dr. Amy Parish, a “Darwinian feminist’ and change-maker in the field of biological anthropology.     Connect with Amy Parish:   Twitter | https://twitter.com/dramyparish?lang=en     Help protect the Bonobos | https://www.bonobo.org/     Show Sponsor: LGC Testosterone Test www.trylgc.com/wildlove for 20% off   Apply for Whitney's Mentorship here  https://www.instagram.com/whitnlove/?hl=en   Connect with Wednesday Martin: Website | http://wednesdaymartin.com/ Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/wednesdaymartinphd/ Twitter | https://twitter.com/WednesdayMartin Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/wednesdaymartinphd/ YouTube | https://bit.ly/2zfvv1H   Check out Wednesday Martin’s new book Untrue | http://wednesdaymartin.com/books/untrue/   Connect with Whitney Miller: Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/whitnlove/?hl=en Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/Miss2Jits/ Twitter | https://twitter.com/whitnlove Onnit | https://www.onnit.com/pro-team/whitney-miller/    Subscribe on  Itunes | https://apple.co/2XKfS0b Spotify | https://spoti.fi/2JPxuhn   Show Notes Sex and Friendship in Bonobos By Barbara Smuts | https://amzn.to/2WP2CpL Lorena Bobbitt | https://nyti.ms/2DIRPU0 A Gibbon Duet | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KGe_UGrrj40  White Handed Gibbons | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lar_gibbon The Woman That Never Evolved by Sarah Hardy | https://amzn.to/2wGDKSw