What does it take to truly connect in marriage—not just co-exist, but really feel close? This episode explores the powerful transformation of a man who went from being a self-centered husband to a committed counselor, pastor, and author focused on helping couples thrive.We break down the five essentials that every relationship needs to move from disconnected and distant to safe, secure, and deeply intimate: authenticity, honesty, transparency, trustworthiness, and safety.You'll also hear real talk on conflict avoidance, emotional vulnerability, spiritual intimacy, and how the smallest baby steps can lead to big breakthroughs.Whether you're dating, married, or somewhere in between, this conversation will challenge and encourage you to pursue a deeper connection in your relationship—because healthy marriages don't happen by accident.