In this episode, Jamie Raisleger speaks with Cynthia Dortch, a doula, childbirth educator, and aspiring midwife, whose experiences as a military spouse and mother deeply shaped her path into birth work. Cynthia opens up about the emotional weight of her first two births and the postpartum depression and rage she faced as a young, isolated mom navigating life during her partner’s deployment.
She shares how her third birth became a redemptive experience and what she did differently to protect her mental health and prepare for a more supported postpartum period.
In this heartfelt conversation, we laugh and cry as we explore the power of community, the importance of recognizing and addressing postpartum mood disorders, and how telling our stories can be a tool for healing. Cynthia’s story is both vulnerable and practical, offering encouragement and actionable insight for any mother seeking to move forward with more awareness, support, and strength. Every mother deserves to heal and to be held. Thank you for being here!
Episode Chapters00:00 Introduction to Birth Stories and Postpartum Experiences
02:27 Cynthia's Journey into Birth Work
04:24 Isabella's Birth Experience
09:38 Desiree's Birth and Back Labor
14:39 Postpartum Challenges and Deployment
20:21 The Struggles of Isolation and Support
22:48 Understanding Postpartum Mood Disorders
27:58 Recognizing Signs of Postpartum Depression
30:10 The Turning Point and Finding Support
35:16 The Impact of a New Pet on Recovery
38:06 Reflection on Vulnerability and Healing
40:15 Transformative Experiences in Pregnancy and Birth
42:37 Navigating Pregnancy with PCOS and Midwifery Care
46:04 The Journey of Labor and Birth
52:46 Empowerment Through Birth Stories
55:20 Postpartum Planning and Support Systems
01:01:24 Recognizing and Addressing Postpartum Challenges
Resources and LinksPostpartum Support InternationalCynthia's IGTriumphant Birth IG