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Butterfly series: Episode 1
“Not This — The Moment the Butterfly Knows”
Series: Becoming the Butterfly (6-part mini-series with Tribe Sober & Janet Gourand)
Host: Lynette Le Roux
Music: “Remember” by Sutherland (used with permission)
Episode summary
Lynette opens the series with the tender, catalytic moment of “Not This”—the quiet inner knowing that your current life no longer fits. Through the butterfly metaphor, mindfulness (Ellen Langer), and Positive Intelligence, she invites you to notice where your own wings are beginning to stir.
What you’ll learn
Why a Not This moment is both painful and sacred
How surrender (the cocoon) precedes transformation
A gentle mindfulness lens: “the simple act of noticing new things”
A reflection prompt to begin moving from awareness to change
Reflection prompt
Journal: “I don’t know exactly what’s next, but I know… not this.”
Then ask: “If not this, what feels lighter, truer, more alive?”
Timestamps
00:00 — Opening music: “Remember” (Sutherland)
00:44 — Series intro & collaboration with Tribe Sober
03:52 — Lynette’s story: the Not This moment
07:23 — Teaching: Mindfulness in transformation (Ellen Langer)
09:34 — Reflection & call to action
10:47 — What’s next in the series + how to connect
13:25 — Outro music: “Remember” (reprise)
Resources & links
Tribe Sober — community, challenges, and support: tribesober.com
Email Lynette — coaching & programs: lynette@llrcoaching.com
Teaser — Episode 2
Turning Not This into a clear vision: Lynette introduces the cognitive tool that changed her life and how to cross the “river of misery” with compassion and practice.
Credits
Host & writer: Lynette Le Roux
Collaboration: Tribe Sober & Janet Gourand
Music: “Remember” by Sutherland (used with permission)
Tribe Sober - inspiring an alcohol free life!
This is a podcast for people who have given up drinking, are thinking about giving up drinking - or are just plain sober curious...