Welcome to Tough Love Energy the podcast where Transformation Coach and Writer, Niamh Ennis, shares with you the tools you need to transform that part of your life that you know is making you miserable. Working through a variety of topics you’ll leave each podcast feeling like you’ve had your very own 1:1 Coaching session with Niamh along with the practical next steps required to keep the momentum going! Be prepared to hear not what you want but always what you need! You’re looking for guidance navigating life’s challenges and are fed up being told what others think you want to hear then my Tough Love Energy Podcast is made for you? I’ll be covering topics such as the importance of connection, Boundaries – how to know you need them and where to start, rebuilding your confidence and self- Belief, managing our doubts and fears, identifying the Stories we live by, getting out of your own way, dimming to fit in, making your passion your purpose and loss, amongst other things. I’m going to share my own personal experiences as well as those of my clients. There will be no tip-toeing around these issues. If you want to learn how to transform any area of your life then listen fortnightly to this podcast.
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Welcome to Tough Love Energy the podcast where Transformation Coach and Writer, Niamh Ennis, shares with you the tools you need to transform that part of your life that you know is making you miserable. Working through a variety of topics you’ll leave each podcast feeling like you’ve had your very own 1:1 Coaching session with Niamh along with the practical next steps required to keep the momentum going! Be prepared to hear not what you want but always what you need! You’re looking for guidance navigating life’s challenges and are fed up being told what others think you want to hear then my Tough Love Energy Podcast is made for you? I’ll be covering topics such as the importance of connection, Boundaries – how to know you need them and where to start, rebuilding your confidence and self- Belief, managing our doubts and fears, identifying the Stories we live by, getting out of your own way, dimming to fit in, making your passion your purpose and loss, amongst other things. I’m going to share my own personal experiences as well as those of my clients. There will be no tip-toeing around these issues. If you want to learn how to transform any area of your life then listen fortnightly to this podcast.
This week on the TOUGH LOVE ENERGY podcast, I’m talking all about moving the goalposts in our lives.
Do you find yourself pushing forward to get somewhere or achieve something only to get there and that feeling of satisfaction proves elusive?
My own coach pointed out to me recently that I have, in her words, ‘unrelenting standards’. Whilst I initially received this as a compliment, after sitting with it for a while, I realised that it should in fact be considered a flaw of mine.
I know that I expect a lot from myself. I have a tendency to push myself to get as much done as possible, and I’m motivated by trying to do better each time. I believe these are positive traits, and there’s nothing wrong with any of that. However, where it starts to become a problem is when I don’t give myself the time to celebrate or even recognise what I’ve done. My focus and attention are already on the next thing that needs doing.
The reality is that I’ve always been like this, but it really hit home a few months ago when I achieved what has been a childhood dream of mine. I share the full story with you in the episode – but essentially, this situation has made me realise that I never allow myself to feel like I have arrived.
To use a sporting analogy, I run up and down the pitch, shifting the goalposts ever so slightly each time I score a goal. And you know what? It’s incredibly exhausting.
My feeling is that this week’s episode will resonate with many of you and I hope it inspires you to consider if, and where, this might be showing up for you in your own life. As always, I love to hear from you, so do let me know if it resonated.
And before you go, I wanted to remind you about my 5-week self-study course, The Change Accelerator, which is now open for enrollment. If you’re looking to make changes in your life, work or business, this programme will give you the tools to create change with increased confidence.
Find out more here: https://www.niamhennis.com/accelerator
Until next time, much love,
Niamh x
Tough Love Energy
Welcome to Tough Love Energy the podcast where Transformation Coach and Writer, Niamh Ennis, shares with you the tools you need to transform that part of your life that you know is making you miserable. Working through a variety of topics you’ll leave each podcast feeling like you’ve had your very own 1:1 Coaching session with Niamh along with the practical next steps required to keep the momentum going! Be prepared to hear not what you want but always what you need! You’re looking for guidance navigating life’s challenges and are fed up being told what others think you want to hear then my Tough Love Energy Podcast is made for you? I’ll be covering topics such as the importance of connection, Boundaries – how to know you need them and where to start, rebuilding your confidence and self- Belief, managing our doubts and fears, identifying the Stories we live by, getting out of your own way, dimming to fit in, making your passion your purpose and loss, amongst other things. I’m going to share my own personal experiences as well as those of my clients. There will be no tip-toeing around these issues. If you want to learn how to transform any area of your life then listen fortnightly to this podcast.
