Welcome to Tough Love Energy the podcast where Transformation Coach and Writer, Niamh Ennis, shares with you the tools you need to transform that part of your life that you know is making you miserable. Working through a variety of topics you’ll leave each podcast feeling like you’ve had your very own 1:1 Coaching session with Niamh along with the practical next steps required to keep the momentum going! Be prepared to hear not what you want but always what you need! You’re looking for guidance navigating life’s challenges and are fed up being told what others think you want to hear then my Tough Love Energy Podcast is made for you? I’ll be covering topics such as the importance of connection, Boundaries – how to know you need them and where to start, rebuilding your confidence and self- Belief, managing our doubts and fears, identifying the Stories we live by, getting out of your own way, dimming to fit in, making your passion your purpose and loss, amongst other things. I’m going to share my own personal experiences as well as those of my clients. There will be no tip-toeing around these issues. If you want to learn how to transform any area of your life then listen fortnightly to this podcast.
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Welcome to Tough Love Energy the podcast where Transformation Coach and Writer, Niamh Ennis, shares with you the tools you need to transform that part of your life that you know is making you miserable. Working through a variety of topics you’ll leave each podcast feeling like you’ve had your very own 1:1 Coaching session with Niamh along with the practical next steps required to keep the momentum going! Be prepared to hear not what you want but always what you need! You’re looking for guidance navigating life’s challenges and are fed up being told what others think you want to hear then my Tough Love Energy Podcast is made for you? I’ll be covering topics such as the importance of connection, Boundaries – how to know you need them and where to start, rebuilding your confidence and self- Belief, managing our doubts and fears, identifying the Stories we live by, getting out of your own way, dimming to fit in, making your passion your purpose and loss, amongst other things. I’m going to share my own personal experiences as well as those of my clients. There will be no tip-toeing around these issues. If you want to learn how to transform any area of your life then listen fortnightly to this podcast.
Welcome back to Tough Love Energy! After a short summer hiatus, I’m thrilled to be back with another episode for you.
This week, I’m exploring a topic that I’m asked about a lot. It’s around boundaries – and specifically, how to say NO. It’s only a little word – but for many of us, we often find ourselves saying ‘yes’ when we really mean to say ‘NO’. So, my hope for all of us is that we make this the year that we all finally learn when and how to say no.
Our lives have been turned upside down over the last 14 months and we’ve had to sacrifice many of the things that we were accustomed to doing. For a long time, social occasions – and the decisions that come around those - were just not an option and we got really used to that. We adapted with relative ease to not having to make those decisions or worry about doing it all and keeping those around us happy.
What I’m hearing now in my community, amongst my clients and in my social circles, is a fair amount of nervousness as the invitations begin to pour in for social gatherings, reunions, and other occasions.
Whilst of course it’s wonderful to be able to see our loved ones, families, and friends again, what we must be mindful of is not falling back into our old patterns and habits of saying ‘yes’ when we really mean ‘no’. If we take anything away from the events of the last year, it’s the real importance of honouring our needs and taking good care of ourselves.
In this episode, I share with you some ideas and ways that you can say no, gracefully. I also re-affirm the reasons why this is so important, and how saying ‘yes’ when you mean ‘no’ links to our ‘people-pleasing’ tendencies. I hope it will help you to find the confidence to step back into your power and get better at saying ‘NO’ when you mean to.
And if this topic resonated with you, I invite you to take my free People-Pleasing quiz. It will help you identify which type of people-pleaser you are, and therefore how people-pleasing tendencies may be showing up for you. Once you’ve completed the quiz, sign up to receive your results guide, which has a number of practices to help you begin to shift old patterns and behaviours around people-pleasing. Take the quix here: www.niamhennis.com/quiz
As always, I love to hear from you. You can find me on Instagram here: www.instagram.com/1niamhennis or get in touch over on my website: www.niamhennis.com.
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Until next time,
Niamh x
Tough Love Energy
Welcome to Tough Love Energy the podcast where Transformation Coach and Writer, Niamh Ennis, shares with you the tools you need to transform that part of your life that you know is making you miserable. Working through a variety of topics you’ll leave each podcast feeling like you’ve had your very own 1:1 Coaching session with Niamh along with the practical next steps required to keep the momentum going! Be prepared to hear not what you want but always what you need! You’re looking for guidance navigating life’s challenges and are fed up being told what others think you want to hear then my Tough Love Energy Podcast is made for you? I’ll be covering topics such as the importance of connection, Boundaries – how to know you need them and where to start, rebuilding your confidence and self- Belief, managing our doubts and fears, identifying the Stories we live by, getting out of your own way, dimming to fit in, making your passion your purpose and loss, amongst other things. I’m going to share my own personal experiences as well as those of my clients. There will be no tip-toeing around these issues. If you want to learn how to transform any area of your life then listen fortnightly to this podcast.
