Are you ready to hear a story of passion, perseverance, and the journey to achieving a dream? In this episode of Tony Talks, we explore the remarkable path of Shea Callister, a young goalkeeper who has defied the odds to secure his first professional contract at Hull City.

Shea’s journey is far from ordinary. Diagnosed with ADHD at a young age, Shea faced challenges both on and off the pitch. From school days where focus was a struggle to football trials that tested his resilience, his story is one of determination and self-discovery. ADHD is often seen as a hurdle, but Shea’s experience shows how it can become an unexpected strength, enabling him to multitask, thrive under pressure, and remain fiercely passionate about his craft.

In this episode, Shea shares his candid reflections on the struggles he faced during his scholar years, the emotional toll of rejection at trials, and how he found support in family, mentors, and the right club environment. Together, we dive into the highs and lows of his journey, offering valuable insights for coaches, players, and anyone striving to overcome challenges in their own life.

In this conversation with Shea Callister, you’ll learn:

• How ADHD shaped his approach to football and fueled his passion for the game.
• The role of family and mentors in helping him navigate setbacks.
• Strategies for managing emotions and staying focused in high-pressure situations.
• How understanding and supportive coaching can unlock a player’s full potential.

This is more than a story about football—it’s about resilience, self-awareness, and the power of persistence. Tune in and be inspired by Shea Callister’s journey to redefine what it means to succeed.

What we discuss:

0:00–2:00: Introduction and Episode Overview

• Host Matt introduces the episode’s theme: the journey of Shae Callister, a young goalkeeper with ADHD.
• Mention of ADHD as both a challenge and potential asset.

2:00–8:00: Shay’s Early Awareness of ADHD

• Shea shares how ADHD impacted him in school and early football experiences.
• Struggles with attention, behavior, and multitasking in both environments.

8:00–15:00: Coaching and ADHD Awareness

• Discussion on how Shea's behavior was perceived by coaches and teachers.
• Shea explains his subconscious multitasking ability and how it confused others.
• Importance of deliberate focus on communication as he matured.

15:00–25:00: Dealing with Frustration and Growth Strategies

• Shea reflects on his younger years and how frustration was often released physically (e.g., punching posts).
• Coaches’ efforts to manage these emotions, including unique methods like leaving a ball or twigs for frustration release.
• Adoption of the “calm over chaos” mindset.

25:00–35:00: Impact of Loan Experiences and Game Situations

• Shea describes his first experience in men’s football, managing distractions, and thriving under pressure.
• Learning to handle criticism, noise, and multiple inputs during games.

35:00–45:00: Challenges During Scholar Period

• Shea recounts struggles with club environments that didn’t fully understand or support him.
• Emotional lows from being tested or overlooked despite his efforts.
• Positive influence of certain coaches and the lack of holistic understanding in others.

45:00–55:00: Resilience Through Rejections and Trials

• Shea details the seven clubs he trialed with before finding success at Hull City.
• The mental toll of repeated rejection and the determination to continue pursuing his dream.

55:00–1:05:00: Role of Family and Support System

• Shea highlights the critical role of his parents, uncles, and mentors in supporting him emotionally and practically.
• The balance between their encouragement and his personal drive to succeed.

1:05:00–1:15:00: Takeaways for Coaches and Players

• Tony and Shea emphasize the need for greater awareness of ADHD among coaches.
• How individualized approaches can unlock potential in players with ADHD.
• Sheas' optimism for his future and commitment to working hard at Hull City.